Is it normal to feel more anxious when you're alone?
Anonymous
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Oct 27, 2018
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Yes of course! A lot of people may be extrovert and being alone is like draining your battery. But being with people charges your battery. It's okay to feel anxious while being alone, but it's totally fine if you are not as well. Being lonely to an extent is fine. If for any reason you are feeling really lonely maybe it isn't so 'normal'. You may have anxiety or depression. So it's all on a spectrum if it is 'normal' or if it's out of the ordinary or a mental illness. Be aware though it's not odd or peculiar in anyway.
Lars12
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Nov 1, 2018
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Everyone experiences anxiety differently; you cannot try to label what is "normal"
It's important to remember that anxiety has many different effects, and recognizing that will help you explore more effective treatment methods.
If you personally feel more anxious when you are alone, you can take steps to figure out what exactly it is about being alone. Try to list three reasons why being alone makes you anxious? Are you worried that something will happen to you? Do you miss the company of your friends and loved ones? Figuring out the causes of your anxiety can help you work out the best ways to take care of yourself
Anonymous
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Nov 7, 2018
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Yes. Humans naturally want to be with other humans to interact, love, etc. So sometimes when we are alone we become anxious that nobody may want to stay with us or are not going to come back to us. That you might be unsafe as well. Many irrational thoughts can race through our minds when feeling anxiety and loneliness, but remember that this is normal. You are not going crazy. remember that there is always someone around that cares for you and that you are never truly alone! If this anxiety concerns you a lot, reaching out to a loved one or a close supportive friend can help and possibly make you feel less lonely. Breathe and know that it will pass.
Anonymous
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Nov 23, 2018
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Absolutely! Human beings are the only species on Earth that stress the future and stresses when there is no danger physically present. When we are alone, passive and inactive, it's so very easy to start worrying about the tiniest of things such as something we said not too long ago or what's going to happen at that big appointment next week. One trick is to detach yourself from these illogical thoughts and do not give into boredom. Avoid intoxicants. Pay attention to what triggers your anxiety and avoid anything related to it when you're by yourself. For example, modern news and media only seems to profit off suffering so don't turn it on. Even a favorite TV show can plant a subliminal doubt in our heads, so be mindful of what is going on around you. Also reassure yourself that things are fine and that you're okay. Sometimes anxiety can be caused by what I've heard called a "quality issue," which is something that does not really impact the quality of our lives but we devote our quality time and energy into stressing over it. Such worries will not likely be taking any food off our or our family's plates and certainly not going to stop the Sun from rising tomorrow. Use this time to get to know yourself better and find the little things that you get enjoyment from. A little dancing or coloring can go a long way in alleviating anxiety and just making us feel better.
SerenaReiki
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Jan 10, 2019
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I think it depends on individual character, for some people being alone means they don't have much distraction from their thoughts. Anxious thinking tends to escalate quickly and when they're alone they can get caught up in the mind too easily and not see things as clearly. If there is someone with them it can draw the person out of a spiral, if the company is compassionate. However for some people who have social anxiety and are naturally loners being alone is often more peaceful and calming than having company.
For people like this company is frequently the cause of their anxious feelings and therefore time alone is time to reset their brain and calm down. So I think it all depends on individual circumstances and character.
confussia
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Feb 22, 2019
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I’d say yes, it is normal to be more anxious when you’re alone because this is when your mind is unbusy with everything else going on and its soley focusing on everything you’ve been stressing about. For me, I won’t panic abot something in public for the fear of my friends knowing or somebody looking at me in a weird way. When i’m alone it feels like all my stress from the day has just piled up and now I can finally break down. I usually feel the most anxious when i’m in a quiet place because it feels like i can hesr my thoughts aloud, which can be very stressful at times. So from personal expirences, I would say that it is 100% normal to feel more anxious when you’re alone.
cloudystarlight
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May 17, 2019
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Yes. When you're alone, you have the peace of mind to ruminate, which is good and bad at the same time. Thoughts tend to run wild if we let them, and the same goes for anxious thoughts. With no social interaction to distract us or give us a certain tether to reality, we're focused on what goes on inside our mind, so much so that sometimes it can spiral out of control and things that might not feel as grave in a social setting, now feel threatening and take up your entire day. Meditation or just simple mindfulness of your thoughts can help with this.
BlankaM
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May 18, 2019
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Absolutely. If your thoughts are disturbing you and you get anxious, that is completely fine. Everyone gets anxious about certain things, work, school, relationships. The main challenge is dealing with those emotions and thoughts that make you anxious. Over-thinking problems or issues is probably the reason why you are getting anxious. So try and target the root cause of the problem. Identfify the anxiety, target it and find a solution. Ask yourself, how can I overcome this thought so that it doesn't bother me and doesn't make me anxious? Sometimes we have to forcefully change our thoughts and not let it wonder off! Thinking about things that won't happen and constructing scenarios in your head won't do any good. Keep your mind at ease and at peace, tackle the anxious thoughts.
Anonymous
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Jun 1, 2019
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Anxious is an unexplained fear which can occur anytime. Since the fear has no particular base to it, it can occur when we are alone or amongst a group of people. So it is normal to feel anxious even when your alone because that's the time we have to think and self assess. So it might trigger the fear which is inside us more easily. It may also be easy for us to imagine various situation and over think leading to more fear. So feeling anxious is normal when one is alone as we are thinking in our alone time in excess
Anonymous
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Jun 8, 2019
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Yes, it is normal to feel anxious when alone. Often times, when you’re by yourself, that’s when your mind begins to over-analyze everything. It’s like your mind starts running a marathon of thoughts, and you can’t quiet them down, which can spark anxiety. If this happens, you ought to surround yourself with positive people that will engage in conversations with you, so that you can be more focused. Sometimes it’s refreshing to have some alone time, but you can definitely have too much alone time. You have to make sure there’s a good balance of both, as they’re equally important.
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