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Is it hard to think critically about something you love?

Profile: playfulPalm95
playfulPalm95 on Apr 24, 2019
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Yes. I believe it is, it all depends on the person and the thing as well as the circumstances. I think that if we are in love with something we have a tendency to only focus on that, rather than thinking critically about whether we should. It’s very easy for emotions to cloud our judgement, but that is natural, some people have an easier time seeing through these emotions to think critically, but some most stop and make an effort to think critically. Certainly having someone else to assist with thinking critically through emotions is a huge help, as they are not feeling the love and can help you with critical thinking!
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Profile: secrethelp21
secrethelp21 on Jun 27, 2019
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This is the most difficult problem I personally face in life. Thinking real and critical about something you want in life. Perhaps in other circumstances, other character traits would be easy, I would think real life, and I would not stick with objects. But I started my own battle, which is not even the least easy. I think realistically and not to tie up with objects. It's not easy at all. But a lot of books help me with books and I practice them. And there is improvement.And when I want something, I ask the question: Is it worth the thing in life?
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2019
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Sometimes you can think too critically about something you love, if you are a perfectionist. You can pick it apart until there is nothing left. "Thinking objectively" might describe better what you need to do, perhaps. When you find yourself being too critical, best to step back and take a few breaths, and maybe do something else for awhile before you return to it. However, if the activity in question is something that requires your full transcendent attention, some good thing that you sink into and lose yourself in before you rise to the surface again, maybe it's not important whether or not you "think critically" about it.
Profile: Hanaa00
Hanaa00 on Jul 11, 2019
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This really depends on the context. However, thinking critically of something we love can sometimes be the best thing that can be done, and for some people it’s very easy. For others though, it can be difficult whenever there are emotions in conflict with reason and logical thinking... for instance, it can get tricky when it comes to romantic relationships, because most people who are in love tend to base their decisions entirely off of that, while they might ignore some logical warnings in the process, even some potential red flags. So in such situations, it is almost impossible.
Profile: MissLisa
MissLisa on Aug 8, 2019
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Often whenever we are in love we can find it difficult to see faults as we tend to love warts and all. It may be helpful to try and take yourself out of that situation and look at it from someone else's point of view. How would they feel? Would they see things that you do not? Or perhaps things that you see, they would consider them more negatively than you? Just keep in mind that thinking critically comes at a price as it can often lead to overthinking and causing problems which were not there to begin with.
Profile: entropysveryown
entropysveryown on Sep 8, 2019
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Thinking critically about something you love is only going to be helpful. It would be a great disservice to you to only look at the favorable. Critical thinking allows us to look deeper into the things we love which helps to strengthen our relationship to that thing, Critical thinking is a necessary step to understanding the things we love at their core. While this is necessary, it does not mean it will be easy. Sometimes we discover things we never knew to be true and that can be a big adjustment and it can take some getting used to. Difficult thinking can lead to great discoveries but also painful ones, it's important to remember both are okay.
Profile: kindHeart888
kindHeart888 on Jun 3, 2021
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It definitely is! Thinking critically about someone we love can make us feel scared, as we do not want to love them in any way less than we do. However, true love is when you accept someone for who they are, both for their faults and virtues. That's why it is a good exercise to think critically about the person you love, but make sure that you also have before you a list of reasons for why you love them and find them special, so that you can always refer to that list after you have seen them in a 'critical light' too.
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Anonymous on Oct 29, 2021
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Yes, it is incredibly difficult because we are always going to be in the mindset of wanting to do what feels the best for us or for the thing that we are thinking about. We are always going to look at situations with a bias whether it be personal, racial, gendered, class, or sexuality standpoint, but especially when we are looking at and thinking critically about something we love. Getting other to weigh in on the issue can bring present a new mindset or way of looking at the situation, but overall it will be challenging to make critical decisions about a topic or a thing that already holds so much love in your heart.
Profile: ScarletOwlet
ScarletOwlet on Nov 7, 2021
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Love can blind you to shortcomings and red flags. especially with people in romantic relationships, you have something known as a 'honeymoon period' where critical thinking doesn't happen and you focus only on the positive. If the something in question is something like a skill or a hobby, the positives tend to outweigh the negatives. Especially over time, the imperfections, flaws, and negative aspects become more obvious. However, loving something isn't ignoring the negative aspects, it is accepting them and choosing to love that something despite them and including them. It can be hard to think critically about something you love, but it is certainly not impossible.
Profile: roseconstance
roseconstance on Nov 10, 2021
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Partly yes, because your emotions can cloud your judgment sometimes. However, it's important to recognize that and make sure to think about things with a clear mind and be able to think critically about whatever it is that you're thinking about. For example, if you're thinking about yourself, it can sometimes be hard to see your faults and things of that nature, especially if you think very highly of yourself. In other words, if you really love something, then it can be hard to realize the truth about different things, especially if you are really committed to whatever it is. It's important to remember that your judgement can be clouded, so just keep that in mind while you're evaluating that.
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