How to stop thinking about a guy who dumped you or is bad for you?
Skira
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Jul 6, 2016
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Maybe accepting the fact and letting yourself think those thoughts, but without really clinging to it, could help you achieve peace on the matter. The feelings won't melt away, but you can learn to get past hurtful moments over time.
RobVL
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Jul 8, 2016
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Your focus should be on yourself. What I mean by this is that you have to love yourself by practicing being aware, accepting and sticking it out with your own personal goals and commitments. Doing this opens you to a world of beautiful possibilities.
Millichidulinas
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Jul 13, 2016
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Try to focus on the things bad he did for you and say to yourself that he's not the right person, but remember that you can't control love.
Anonymous
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Jul 20, 2016
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First, reflect on why the guy dumped you or is bad for you. Second, think about was that a correct decision. Third, if you are certain that was the right decision, then you will stop soon. After all, he will gradually become unimportant. You can also engage yourself with certain hobbies or try socialising with other people. Maybe, as a result, you may find another guy you fell in love with.
rachtale
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Jul 24, 2016
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It's bad for you, they dumped you and yes that leaves an impact but you can't stay on that one guy forever when there's 7 billion other people on Earth. Stop listening to those breakup songs and make some time for just yourself.
alexsws
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Jul 26, 2016
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You make a list of the pros and cons, and if the cons outweigh the pros then he's bad. Then you look at all the negativity he has released on your life
Anonymous
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Aug 3, 2016
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Think about your own credibility, how you deserve more. You are a better person and your life deserves more.
Anonymous
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Aug 3, 2016
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Try to stay bus. Usually if you are focussed on other things, your mind will not be set on the breakup or on your negative emotions about the situation
Anonymous
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Aug 5, 2016
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Give yourself the time you deserve. Spend time with family and friends. And in time the thoughts of your ex will go away.
steelnerve
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Aug 5, 2016
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Look for a more deserving candidate, to be honest. But not before being a bit self loving first. Involve in a self improvement activity, or even better make it a habit. I feel that its important to have self-worth before stepping in to the waters again.
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