How to forget my one-sided love?
Anonymous
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May 6, 2018
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Focus on yourself instead of people. That is how you move ahead. Do your own thing, kick your own goals. Thinking about rest of the people, where they are in life or what they have isn’t going to change a single thing to yours. Don’t let people tell you that you are less or are not capable of doing things. Wake up every morning to tell yourself that you are capable of doing anything, because you are! Don’t depend on anyone else for your happiness. Be one for your own self :)
Anonymous
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Jun 2, 2018
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Forgettig a one-sided love can be very difficult. I validate those who are attempting to do this. You will have to stay strong and do what is best for you. You are the most important person in your life and you have to remember that. Do what makes you happy.
Sunisshiningandsoareyou
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Jan 24, 2021
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Aw hey, I think one sided love is both good and bad. Good because, you're so self sufficient..you don't need the other person's approval on your love for them, you can just love them even at a distance. Bad because, it is heartbreaking to know that, where you'll do anything for them, they might not ever reciprocate those feelings and it is so very okay to be hurt and heartbroken here . But yes, it's also important to know and remember that, in the long run, one sided love will only cause you more pain, the sooner you accept that they are not for you, and that there will definitely be someone somewhere who will give you the stars without you even asking, it just somehow helps to know that, efforts should be put where there's even a slight chance of something happening in your favor. Beyond that, it will affect your personal life to be hurting always . So try to get that closure for yourself, maybe meeting new and more people will broaden a perspective and help you see that there's so many people potential partners around, who will reciprocate your feelings and appreciate and accept you the way you are , which is how love really should be ...accepting and validating â¤
YesICan199
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Apr 21, 2016
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Honestly if you have to daily interact with her for class or because she's your friend, you should tell her how you feel. If you have, find other activities to focus on. Just know that eventually, those feelings will be for someone else.
InspirationalAdventurer
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May 13, 2016
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Sadly, it won't be easy to forget or get over a one sided love when you're exposed to them daily. My best advice would be to do things to distract yourself from her. Hang out with friends, go hiking. Plan things so that meeting with her doesn't become the main event of your day that you focus on
Anonymous
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Jun 5, 2016
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Why would you forget about her ? Make your mind about your situation and accept it. Also, your situation will change, rush this change if you feel too uncomfortable with it (new job, etc).
ladycat946
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Jun 25, 2016
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You can go out and meet new people, doing new activities or something you wanted to do for a long time, do something with your friends... The main goal is to keep your mind busy :) You can try to talk with her to manage your schedule, so you wont be with her all the time.
gentleVision89
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Jun 29, 2016
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You don't need to forget her, maybe you'll just grow out of it someday and find somebody who loves you.
Anonymous
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Aug 21, 2016
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you just have to keep talking to as many women as possible , just keep doing that , keep making new friends, you'll eventually be out of it.
Anonymous
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Sep 2, 2016
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Turn as much focus as you can towards life-rewarding or simply relaxing activities. If she works with you keep busy and/or your mind focused on 'work, not play'. If it is more of a social situation then go by situation. You can avoid sitting with her or talking about things that you know will open up conversations between the two of you. When interacting with her keep a proper/respectful distance and don't take too much away from simple interactions. For example a hug is just a hug, a greeting or a comfort to some and that's it, so any more personal focus on it is unessessarily damaging to yourself.
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