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How to forget my one-sided love?

Profile: mentalhealthactivist19
mentalhealthactivist19 on Jun 12, 2016
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Unrequited love is one of the most common issues individuals deal with, yet can be incredibly bothersome. The first thing one must remember is, getting over any strong emotion takes time. Don't feel discouraged if you cannot do it overnight, because few people, if any, can. And if you desire a relationship, one thing that might be worthwhile is to try to meet new individuals. Who knows - when you meet someone else who is equally or even more compatible, the recovery may happen naturally!
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Profile: sarahs21
sarahs21 on Oct 10, 2014
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You should focus on some other stuff, eventually it will hurt less, but if you didn't make the first move you should go for it first.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2017
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Aw, I'm sorry, lovely. I'm afraid we all have to face that at least once. Luckily, that means loads of your friends and close family can help you! Talking it out helps loads, and don't forget that crushes are grown out of
Profile: OpenedEyes
OpenedEyes on May 8, 2016
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Face her with an open mind that you want to move on. Begin to look at her as the past and as a person. Don't try to forget because that will never happen, try to focus your intentions on moving on.
Profile: Supergirl94
Supergirl94 on Aug 11, 2016
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Accept how you feel and try to move on
Profile: Lovingbutterfly66
Lovingbutterfly66 on Mar 11, 2018
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You can forget your one-sided lover by remembering that you can do better. Remembering that you are an important person who is worthy of the same love that you give out.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 28, 2016
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You can always just keep meeting her everyday and maybe one day she'll see you as something more than just a best friend.
Profile: AutumnLeigh
AutumnLeigh on Sep 4, 2016
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You can't forget her if you have to see her daily. What you CAN do, is practice realizing in your mind that your love is one-sided and it's a wonderful thing that life gives you a choice of who to love. Try to open your mind to befriending other girls who might someday be your true love and return your feelings. Best of luck and love to you!
Profile: delicateEars36
delicateEars36 on Aug 8, 2016
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Instead of trying to forget them maybe trying filling your mind with a new interest or hobby. Try to have something that you go to in your mind every time they enter your mind.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 17, 2016
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I won't be annoying and say "You should tell her" or anything like that. People have reasons why they don't want to tell something like that. Just that maybe it will be easier to get a closure, or start something with the person. Then again there might be something that is an obstacle. So i won't get into this a lot. Now about your question. Some scientists say that you'll never really forget, but i did. It' more of finding a way to forget. You can try to occupy yourself with something else, have something else on your mind so you won't think about her. Some people try to find flaws in peope they love, so maybe that can work. You can start something new with someone else. Or if somehow you can not see her for some time, but not think about her, it could help. Maybe you'll get more helpful answers. But i wish you luck, and if you have problems, or just can't do this alone, you have people on this site :) I still think that it might be the best to confront her, and tell her, but it's your decision. I wish you all the best!
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