How to forget my one-sided love?
Anonymous
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Aug 12, 2018
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to be able to move on from one sided love is to be able to distance yourself from any situations you feel yourself catching more feelings, distancing uourself from the person you love is the best way to move on
Joseph016
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Sep 15, 2018
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Focus on doing your passion and what you love doing. It's hard in the beginning, but understand that you gave every effort you could have done. This is the most important thing to remember. Find someone to talk to, it can help a lot. Know that somethings aren't meant to work out, not because you did something wrong, simply because people are blinded by their own individual pain to see. Nowadays, you can be everything someone ever wanted but still be rejected. This is sadly life, and though it might be unfair, you still have to be yourself. There's a quotes by someone and it goes like this, 'some people lose diamonds searching for stones' If you have tried and put effort, never feel as if you failed, as its the best you can do. If someone can't see your greatness, shine brighter, as they have mitigated the opportunity to see that.
Anonymous
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Jul 27, 2019
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No matter how romantic the books,movies and tv show try to label the one-sided love, often our feelings are not reciprocated or simply the person you love is unattainable due to some reason. When the person you love falls under any of the above stated categories, to feel better you need to forget about them. Once a person has denied any interest in you romantically you should accept that and not keep trying again and again in a hope that they will change their previous decision.
Some things that you might try are:
1. Explain to them how you feel.
2. Distance yourself from them for some time.
3. Use that time to process your emotions.
4. Meet new people.
5. Don't try to find the qualities they had in every new person
6. Try a new hobby.
Praticalsupport
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Aug 15, 2018
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Stop triggering yourself with thoughts of them. Allow yourself time to move on. Find other positive things to focus on such as exercise, coffee with friends, helping others etc.
Anonymous
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Aug 16, 2018
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Love is never easy, especially love that is not reciprocated. In this case it's important to let yourself heal, and possibly even make space between you and the person you love so that you can focus on yourself. Things like pampering yourself, finding new interests and pursuing new things on your own can make you feel complete on your own and rid you of the feeling of needing someone.
It may also be helpful to remind yourself that you are WORTHY of love and there are plenty of people out there who are willing to return that love. You just have to pick yourself up eventually, and go on with life by having your best interests in mind. :)
Mountainmystic777
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Sep 2, 2018
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To forget one-sided love, one must start loving oneself with the same intensity they loved the other person. Try spending time with yourself doing things you like, pamper and spoil yourself. Try taking yourself out for dates to your favourite places. Discover your hobbies or new interests. A one sided love is at times hard to forget, so try spending time worth friends and family who genuinely love, appreciate and cherish you for who you are. Don't stop believing in yourself because you all are amazing and awesome people! Also, don't skip on meals, rather, give yourself a treat :)
vanillawest88
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Sep 6, 2018
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Relationships are not easy at all. They are full of ups and downs, problems, emotions, etc. A relationship should always be two-sided including love. I think the best way to get over a one-sided love is to learn to love yourself first. If you are giving someone all of you, and they are not doing the same in return, its not fair. We have to bar for ourselves, and learn what we need. If we find a partner who cannot reach those bars, or does not want to, then we have to move on. We know we deserve so much better.
magnanimousWinter46
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Oct 4, 2018
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To forget my one-sided love i needed to forgive the person for maybe not knowing how to love or not being able to love. I would never say my “one-sided love†in order to love and feel loved the other person has to be capable of being loved and feeling loved. Love is never a one sided thing. I don’t believe you can love someone fully if they don’t love you. You can only do what someone allows you to do. If I don’t want to be loved then I won’t accept your love, if I don’t understand love then I’m gunna push you away. To fully be loved you have to love. I apologize if that was all over the place!
iSina
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Dec 26, 2018
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Love is an important but common issue in life. So, it is completely understandable that you have faced a problem to deal with this issue. It may have difficulty to overcome love related problem but fortunately nearly everyone can handle it. I've had problem too. I agree that some of love problems takes time and energy to overcome, but I found kindness and passion in you that definitely helps you to find a new and more similar person to fall in love. With your social capabilities, you'll have a lot of persons to deal with in your daily life and this helps you to forget the recent issue.
Ladipsutes
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Jan 20, 2019
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Focus on yourself, invest in your self. Go do things you like with friends, with family and alone. Understand that you don not need another person to live your life to the fullest. You do not need another person to have fun. Have fun on your own, get in touch with new people. Go see the world and learn about new cultures. Spend all the love that you would have spend on the other person now on yourself. Love yourself! Buy nice things for yourself and give yourself compliments. Know that you are enough and you only need yourself.
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