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How do I talk to my boyfriend about our relationship?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 6, 2016
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Since I don't have any information about your relationships or what exactly you want to talk to him about. I can only suggest you that you confront him head on. Sit him down and tell him what bothers you, explain to him what the problem is and that you want to work it out. Be patient and reasonable also be prepared to clarify everything. Being truthfull and genuine is usually the best approach. I hope that helps.
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Profile: nuuuris
nuuuris on May 20, 2016
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In relationships you have to be honest and trust your parner. If you feel that something is going in the wrong way or you don't feel the same that you used to, you should talk to him and be honest with him otherwise if you don't feel like telling him because you can't trust him, maybe it's the time to think about your relationship in a deeper way. If you need anything please message me :) Good luck dear!
Profile: enchantingSun49
enchantingSun49 on May 22, 2016
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Sit down and explain how you're feeling, respect his opinion as he should respect yours! Try and work things out, it's better to communicate than not at all!
Profile: Aprtylittlemess
Aprtylittlemess on May 22, 2016
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Set aside time to talk when you will not be interrupted. Take it in turns to have air time - some people find setting a timer for five minutes, one speaking while the other listens, then reversing the process, can create a space for each to talk without interruption. Tell your partner how you felt, feel or will be feeling about something without blaming them. This can be tricky but it is a very useful way of owning your feelings. Plan to go together somewhere that provides an environment you both find relaxing e.g. a walk in the park, a drink at a pub or a coffee when you're shopping, etc.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 8, 2016
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He is your boyfriend.. and a relationship works.. when both of the people don't hide anything from eachother.. they are like bestfriends. If you want to talk to him.. then calmly ask him and have a conversation with open and cool mind. Always try not to let misunderstandings come in your relationship. Just grab a opportunity and talk with him.. He will understand or you are his girlfriend, you would make him understand.
Profile: squishycinnamonrolls
squishycinnamonrolls on Feb 27, 2017
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You need to steer your boyfriend to understand the seriousness of the topic. If there is something you dislike, don't use the words "always" or "never" nor accuse him. Express your needs and leave it open for him to do something about it. Be positive in that sense such as "I'm always happy when you make time with me." That will inspire him to do it more instead of saying "call me more." When it comes down to discussion about the relationship and meeting needs, approach it with positive energy and with love.
Profile: BeyondEmpathy
BeyondEmpathy on Apr 24, 2017
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Talking about a relationship is a key and important aspect and something I liken to having a smoke alarm, It requires maintenance and service if its to function properly. How can we ever know what the other is thinking. The answer is that there is no way that we can. The best way is to be honest and ask them what they think, how they feel, what they would like and equally share the same. A relationship is two lives combining to share one together it takes work effort and above all communication..
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 22, 2022
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Try to talk about it calmly and both take turn to tell each other a problem you might think you have and think about ideas on how to resolve it making sure that you are both happy in the relationship. You both would need to make sure that your happy to have the conversation and that it’s not forced on either of you. It needs to be a genuine conversation that you both agree to take advice from and change for the better to improve your relationship and make it much happier and enjoyable. You and your partner should be happy to talk about it in your own time without any rush.
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