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How do I talk to my boyfriend about our relationship?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 16, 2019
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Communication is an important part of every healthy relationship. Although it may be challenging when we have something upsetting on our mind, in the end, taking the time to communicate can improve how we feel about our problems. To talk with your boyfriend about your relationship, try to find a time when both of you are free for an extended period. For instance, this could be after work or during a meal. Ask him if "now" is a good time to talk about some things on your mind. Next, it is often helpful to be straightforward and honest in regards to what you want to discuss. He may get frustrated or disagree with what you are saying, but this does not mean that it is impossible to find a solution. Turn the conversation back to what you feel and how you want to proceed in the future. Overall, it may help you to identify any issues and specifically how it impacts your own thoughts and feelings. Look towards the future and brainstorm ways that you can move forward in the relationship in a way that makes both of you happier!
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Profile: consigliere
consigliere on Jan 27, 2016
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going to a restaurant (where you can have some privacy and talk peacefully without much noise) and talking about it
Profile: LoveIsOurWeapon
LoveIsOurWeapon on Jan 27, 2016
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Tell him simply that you want to talk about things, Emotions and feelings should be shared and treasured in a relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jan 28, 2016
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There are many ways to do this but the easiest way is to just tell them what you are going to say. By doing this you will get their honest opinion and answer.
Profile: happy22icecream
happy22icecream on Jan 28, 2016
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I think the best thing you could do is to be honest and open with him.
Profile: CaringJoy
CaringJoy on Feb 6, 2016
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Sit down and have a heart to heart talk in a quiet peaceful environment without being judgmental or combative.
Profile: highMuffin
highMuffin on Feb 6, 2016
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If there is something you want to talk about do it straight - just sit somewhere private where you'll not be bothered and calmly explain what's bothering you. Sharing and listening are essential for a relationship and they can strenghten it
Profile: Fenixashes37
Fenixashes37 on Feb 13, 2016
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Just tell him the truth and be honest. No one likes to be lied to. Ask him what he need and want from you and vice versa.
Profile: GentleAngel10
GentleAngel10 on Feb 13, 2016
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Being straightforward is the best way to approach any relationship. Just tell him what you feel. If he is really the right choice for you, he will understand.
Profile: L1ttleBlueB1rd
L1ttleBlueB1rd on Feb 14, 2016
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First off, I would talk to him in person. It's always better to talk face to face, especially in more serious conversations. Try to have your talk somewhere quiet and/or relaxing, like taking a walk, going to the park, going out to a small dinner, etc. Try to be open and listen. Both individuals need to be open and listen to one another for this encounter to be successful.
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