How do I come to terms with decisions i've made?

You have to realize and accept that it can't be changed anymore. Also that you had your reasons to decide this.

I have reflected on a variety of choices and the consequences on making those specific decisions that are in line and consistent with my values.

Stick to it. Plan again depending on its progress. Decisions are better if they are concrete BUT somehow flexible.

You learn to love yourself and how you solve problems! If you are creative, be creative in solving problems and OWN it. The more comfortable you are and love yourself, the more confident you will be and the less likeliness that you will ever regret your decisions.

The past is in the past. We tend to stay in it but regardless of whatever you do or think, life goes on. What could help you is keeping in mind that life is a journey you create as you go. There is no set end goal and there are no walls, paths, or checkpoints. Our lives are built by the choices we make, and while it can be unpleasant sometimes, we have to make them. And that is how you deal with the consequences of things you've done. By living. Because you are living the consequences.

Radical acceptance is a great place to start. Basically, that means to understand that there's no use fretting over the things you can change because that energy is better spent changing them, and there's no use fretting over the things you cannot change because that energy is only being used to make yourself miserable.

Many women automatically believe that an ex ignoring them means it is because of something bad when that isn’t always the case. It may be surprising to you but your ex may be ignoring you because he actually still cares for you and has feelings for you. Breaking up with someone is a highly emotional roller coaster full of confusing emotions as you know yourself as you’re going through it yourself. Everyone reacts to breakups differently though and him ignoring you may be a way for him to heal from the breakup. let hi know how you feel and how you go/

i think about what i did i give myself distance from socializing i review what i did and why i did it if it does not go by the rights and wrongs and judge myself optimistically, if i do find myself guilty of doing something wrong i will decide what actions i should take further to not repeat the mistake i made and write it down thoroughly so that if i ever forget doing it i can come back to it andf review my mistakes so i dont do them again, to not only make myself a better version but to also improve the mindset i show younger people.