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How can something that's so hard for me come naturally to everyone else?

Profile: Popsicle1990
Popsicle1990 on Sep 14, 2015
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Everyone is different. I cant sing a lick but i know people that can sing like a bird. If we were all good at everything then it be really dull. I am a massive nerd about most uninteresting random stuf.. but i try and own it. It is me and sometimes in my random box of knowledge i have a gem that can make people laugh. FInd your thing and Own it!
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Profile: SpiritualCoverage
SpiritualCoverage on Mar 1, 2016
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It is because if that something seems to be easy for them, maybe something that comes easy for you is really hard for them. It is about how our brains and minds are wired and shaped. We all grew up in different environments, have different genetic heritage or have different sets of skills or exposure to them. It doesn't mean we can't learn hard things, and share with others what comes easy to us. We can exchange our skills in this way too
Profile: spectacularPiano55
spectacularPiano55 on May 9, 2016
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Because everybody is different in their own way, and somethings are easier for some people than for others.
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We all have different abilities and different rates for learning or performing different tasks. Just because we do not learn at the same pace as another person does not mean that we are incompetent, however, and that we should give up.
Profile: delightfulTruth71
delightfulTruth71 on Jul 3, 2017
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Everybody has different strengths and weaknesses. LIke, if you have curly hair, chances are you try to straighten it and vice versa. There will be something that you're good at, that others find difficult. It can take time to find out what that is.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 5, 2018
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Because everyone is born different. Everyone’s life/path is different. We are not all the same, now there are somethings that most people can do but if u can’t do it then that’s ok because like I said MOST people can do it. But there are things that you, yourself can do that others can’t do. Now that does not mean that they are stupid or weak just like how when you can’t do something others can do that it does not mean you are stupid or weak. Everyone has there own strengths and weaknesses, and if your strengths are in other areas that most people’s aren’t in then that’s a good thing because it means your Unique. (Which is a VERY GOOD thing)
Profile: Rwtrek22
Rwtrek22 on Feb 26, 2018
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Everyone is different, just embrace what is good about you and ask people to help you in areas you aren’t as good!
Profile: sensitiveDeer601
sensitiveDeer601 on Jun 4, 2018
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Everyone has their own strengths, and that shows in our abilities. When I was on guard, it took me forever for me to get this one toss. Another girl immediately got the toss and it frustrated me. My band director told me to keep trying, so I did and I got the toss. Just because something doesn't come naturally doesn't mean that you can't do it. Keep pushing and persevere.
Profile: tallSouth9987
tallSouth9987 on Jun 12, 2018
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I agree with the answers here, we all are different. It's also worth noting that people may fake how natural they do something. Fake it till you make it, some may say.
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