How can I talk to people normally?

Nobody is perfect. Everyone is struggling on some level. When you shift your focus what they will think about you or stop fearing judgements, instead you just try to be kind to others. You reach a maturity level where you can't only talk to people normally but handle people around you quite well than an average person. Try to be kind to people around you and don't give them the liberty to impact your mood and state of mind. Once you stop fearing people. Everything is going to feel easy. Note: It is my personal view so to be treated like a general view, not professional advice.

It is difficult to conceptualize what is "normal", but I know how you can talk to people "freely": by letting go of the need to be "normal" or to seem socially desirable. These two concerns, which I'm sure you have, are the only things that are holding you back in your communication with other people. We constantly think about how others will evaluate us and that is poisoning our life. Although, the matter of fact is - there will always be people who wont like you no matter how hard you try; and second fact - there will always be people who will like you for who you are, even if you're not trying. Perhaps I went a little off the topic, but I really hope that this answers your question anyways, becuase in most cases, the root cause of people not being able to talk freely to others is the concern of whether they will appear socially desirable or not. It is a need that many never let fully go of, but you don't need to let it go fully. Your life will get so much easier if you manage to let go of just half of it.

Take a deep breath. Smile. Ask questions - relevant questions to the conversation. Make amusing comments about shared experiences you're having at that moment or have had together in the past. Don't be afraid to be yourself - share details about yourself and your life, keeping the amount of detail a little more limited when you don't know someone that well, and more plentiful when you know them well. And always keep in mind that nothing is personal. People may say things that sound like they are directed at you, but 9 times out of 10 they are projecting their own lived experience at you, and anything they say is coming from a lifetime of interactions with others and themselves, rather than it being about you in that specific moment. This will help you navigate taking offence or feeling embarrassed more easily.

I love this question, because it allows space to challenge the term, "normally." Normal is ultimately relative. What might be normal for me is probably not normal for you, and this is okay. This is really cool, because it allows us to define the term for ourselves in a way that works the best for us. Not only does the term "normal" vary per person, but it can also vary per group; for instance, what is normal for my friends and I is definitely not considered normal in other situations. It is okay to change it up. Find what feels comfortable and authentic for you. The world is our oyster!

Many people struggle with the ability to talk to others in a way that feels casual and ordinary. Social anxiety, autism, attention deficits, low self esteem, confidence issues, or imposter syndrome can all sometimes feel like they are getting in the way of what is considered "normal" social interaction. It's important to realize, however, that there is no real standard for "normal". "Normal" is just a word people use for "expected" and what is normal for one person may be unusual for another. If you feel you are not able to talk to people in a way you would consider "normal", perhaps it would help to find people who share common ground with you, so that you could practice feeling comfortable in conversation. You can also research facial expressions and social cues to familiarize yourself with social norms and conversational conventions. You can even practice small talk with close and supportive friends or family who understand your struggle. If you do not have anyone to practice with, you can practice in a mirror or rehearse using online videos of casual conversation. These are all coping mechanisms people use for helping themselves to get along in society when talking to others does not come naturally to them.

talking to people normally does not require much effort , you can initiate a conversation , talk about how you feel , talk about your day , share your memories, feel free to talk about anything , dont be judgemental , use proper usage of words, talk about things you like , your hobbies , talk about anything you want , just have a normal conversation , see that your interests are in line with the the interest of the other person. its nice to talk to people and share your views with a person and tell them your opinion.

The best way to learn is to practice. It helps to have common interests and hobbies to discuss, so clubs and events (like music shows, book clubs, sewing circles, movie nights, etc.) are all great ways to connect to others over a set activity and build more intimate relationships from there. Although everyone makes mistakes, practice brings people closer to perfect and also teaches you how to recover from mistakes, apologize, mend fences, set boundaries, and trust yourself in conversations. You can try setting daily goals, like meeting 5 new people in a week, or try online chatrooms which may be easier than navigating body language in conversation. Whatever works for you!

For me, i have many friends, some are for just chatting and some for deeper discussions. From my past experience, some friends are not suitable to share emotional experiences and make me feel worse when i share with them. I choose who to share and talk about things that concerns me according to their capabilities. Talking about usual stuff is the easiest, does not require a specific moment or situations. But to talk to friends about emotional stuff requires a little preparation such as if they are in a hurry, at work place etc. It is also i am ready to share my trouble to someone.

Be yourself! There are many people with the same interest, try talking about something you are passionate about. This will interest the person and a great conversation can be sparked. You can also start by saying a simple greeting, and the person can lead the conversation that may interest you. It will be ok, a lot of people are friendly once you get to talk to them. Maybe try complimenting somebody on their shoes or their jewelry and this can be an amazing conversation starter. Remember just be yourself, take a deep breath, and go for it. Hope this helped :)

I think "normally" is a relative term. In my eyes, talking to people "normally" is talking to them how you naturally would--in your own, unique, beautiful way. Don't think so much about how you *should* talk; instead, be yourself and connect with them on that level where emotions are raw and pure, without logic and with human feeling. I find that when I overthink what you're "supposed to" say, I find that I have nothing to say, but when I just go over and start chatting without expectations, just trying to be friendly and happy to talk to that person, there is plenty to talk about.