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How can I talk to people normally?

Profile: aestheticlives
aestheticlives on Mar 28, 2018
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Being yourself is the key. Nothing would be as beautiful and unique as you are. Relax, don't get nervous or anxious and feel comfortable with your company.
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Profile: jadaluv15
jadaluv15 on Mar 29, 2018
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Just be less conscious of yourself, relax more, don't tense up or concentrate too much on what you're going to say next. Casual conversation should be something relaxed and easy like breathing in and out.
Profile: Daisyloo
Daisyloo on Apr 8, 2018
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Just be yourself! Listen to people when they speak. Truly hear them. Be kind and honest with your responses. Let your personality shine :)
Profile: lovelypumpkin
lovelypumpkin on Apr 11, 2018
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In reality, there is no such thing as normal. Be yourself, and people will love you for you. If someone does not love you for you, it is their major loss.
Profile: LovelyCreature17
LovelyCreature17 on Apr 14, 2018
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Just be comfortable and speak your mind. People will like you for who you are. Any way of feeling comfortable is the definition of normally
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 14, 2018
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Know that these "people" might be asking the same question as you. Dont think too much about it and try to visualize the best case scenario of how the conversation could turn out! Good luck
Profile: wishfulRose80
wishfulRose80 on Apr 25, 2018
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It's all about how confident you are and how comfortable you are with yourself. If you think low of yourself, that only makes talking to others more difficult.
Profile: flowermermaid26
flowermermaid26 on Apr 28, 2018
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try practicing with one person first? maybe chatting up people here at cups will also help :) let me know if you'd like to chat!
Profile: Monique89
Monique89 on Apr 28, 2018
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Normal is subjective. Just be yourself! Everyone has their own unique characteristics, no two people are the same. As long as you're kind, you are doing great.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 29, 2018
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Take a deep breath. Stay calm in your mind. Try thinking of how you will start a conversation and what you would like to talk about. I suggest making comliments about something such as maybe their hair, look or them being helpful, another thing is picking up on minor details that they may have such as their hair, shirt or keychains and see if you can start a conversation from there. For example maybe they died their hair and you can ask them about that, or they have a band shirt you recognize and you could ask them about that. Find little things to talk about even if it just how their day is going.
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