How can I talk to people normally?
Anonymous
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Aug 23, 2017
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Talk to them the way you'd like to be talked to! Ask them questions and if they like the same things you like, tell them! Try to understand how they're feeling, and learning to watch body language is a very good start. Smile when they smile, look worried when they're worried, etc. You can do this!
Savh
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Sep 22, 2017
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When I meet new people, I often feel anxious to start a conversation, because I'm scared I'll sound stupid or say all the wrong things. What helps me personally, is to try to have an open and positive mindset. Beforehand, I try to think of general, safe topics to use as a conversation starter. It doesn't have to be the weather, but it can just be something simple as where people are from, how long they've worked somewhere, etcetera. A bit awkwardness is okay, especially with strangers. Everyone is nervous talking to people they've never met, but be a bit courageous! There are many nice people out there, but you'll never know if you don't talk to them.
windfox3
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Nov 2, 2017
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Start simple. Look at the person and note something you like about them, then give them a compliment. "I really like your shirt, where did you get it?"
Allow the conversation to grow and listen CAREFULLY. "Oh my daughter got me this shirt for my birthday!"
If you are listening, you know the person you talk to has children, or at least a daughter. Follow up on that : "Oh? How many children do you have?"
Remember that conversation is a give and take. The more you focus on the details of what others tell you, the more you can build out a framework of topics to discuss. If they have kids - you can ask, are they married? For how long? Are they a native of the city you met in? What's their favorite sports team, if they even like sports.
Listen. People will tell you a lot of snippets of their interests. Ask questions, and tell them about yourself too!
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2017
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If you're struggling to hold "normal" conversation with people, consider practicing different conversation topics online first. Join different forums and threads where you can attempt to hold conversations with people who have the same interests. After that, you can follow the example of people in TV series, movies, and talk shows. Practice your facial expressions and posture in front of the mirror. Work on your confidence and any self-esteem issues with a friend, family member, or counselor.
karenw
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Nov 9, 2017
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just take your time. relax. be yourself thats all you can be. dont worry so much. people should accept you for who you are.
Will22
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Nov 16, 2017
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The most important thing to remember when talking to people is to talk about them. Studies have shown that people find others more likeable when the others ask about them.
Anonymous
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Nov 30, 2017
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everyone has their own label for normal. if you feel a person is viewing you as abnormal you may not know them well enough to understand. you can keep the conversation minimal. sometimes people like when you talk too much about yourself and more about them.
HumbleHug00
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Dec 3, 2017
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As long as you are kind and understanding, you can have great conversations! But also remember to be yourself! :)
AvaLive07
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Dec 7, 2017
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Sounds like you are worried about your communication. When you say normally, what do you mean by that?
Anonymous
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Dec 8, 2017
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Start by making them your friends. That will make it easier for you to be comfortable around them and speak normally.
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