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How can I talk to people normally?

Profile: hannah221
hannah221 on Sep 11, 2016
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If you see someone and think they are nice just go up to them and Start a normal Konversation like "hey, you seemed very nice so I wondered if we could talk"
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 15, 2016
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Good question! You just did it. It's easy. Many people filter their language: stop doing that. Start saying what comes to mind. There is no "normal" way to talk to people. I'm not sure what that means.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 22, 2016
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Use your profile as a mission statement. Think of it as your introduction, you'll sometimes get a clue that the member has read it and you can feel more comfortable in your conversation. When you learn something new add it to your profile!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 24, 2016
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You know how people say that forcing a smile will make you feel a slight bit happier? Without going into too much science, basically your brain associated smiling with happiness, so forcing a smile semi-tricks your brain into making you feel happier. The same goes with confidence. Fake the confidence. You can be as anxious as you want, but as long as you cover it with confidence, people won't notice. And once you've started faking confidence enough, you'll eventually start to become more confident anyway.
Profile: FriendlyKitten
FriendlyKitten on Sep 25, 2016
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I can't ensure you it will work and I don't know how receptive are people from where you live, but you can try to practice through an online free language course because they will somehow show you the basics for a natural conversation with strangers. If you are talking about well known people, you can talk with them about this difficulty you have so they might help you. Hope it helped! Have a nice day! :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 30, 2016
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Honestly the best advice is to be yourself - maybe the more confident version of yourself, but still you.
Profile: ennaeyx
ennaeyx on Oct 7, 2016
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Think of a time when you feel comfortable expressing your opinions and channel that mindset towards people you want to talk to.
Profile: FrenchRedcake
FrenchRedcake on Oct 15, 2016
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I ask them how are they, what did they do today, what are their plans and what are they doing for the next friend's birthday.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 16, 2016
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Start saying hi. If you are shy or have low self esteem, it's a great way to get to know people, especially since the other person will usually reply, allowing you to start up a simple conversation.
Profile: LastHope1218
LastHope1218 on Oct 26, 2016
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You can talk to people normally by first looking for things you have in common with them. When you find something you have in common, then you focus on that and discuss it until you find something else you have in common with them.
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