How can I get what I need from my doctor?
DarkPiT23
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Nov 27, 2020
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Get organized. Be clear about what you need from your appointment. ...
Prioritize. Organize your list. ...
Start early. The best time to see a doctor is early in the day.
Be human. You need a physician, not an automaton. ...
Be direct. ...
Plan ahead. ...
Say thank you.
Come prepared. ...
Prioritize your concerns. ...
Don't be afraid to ask for another appointment. ...
Be willing to communicate outside the exam room. ...
Bring someone with you.
Don't Be Shy:
Set an Agenda. Many doctors' visits last only 15–20 minutes, so it's important to prioritize your concerns by setting an agenda, Roter says. ...
Be Honest. Roter urges patients to be honest about worries and concerns. ...
Ask Questions. ...
Work Collaboratively.
Tyedyedbutterfly65
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Dec 5, 2020
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Seeing a Doctor can be very triggering for some and what has helped me when I go is making a List of things that I may forgot and then regret not asking about so by making my list a day before I am calmer and can really think about what it is that I want to ask my doctor about and then go down my list while there and I will actually write down their reply and have it with me when I am back home. When going down the list make sure that you they understand that you are there for answers and would like to get these things taken care of. Doctors normally set a time limit they wanna be with a patient and they can hurry some one along so it is important to make sure you go prepared and get the results you went for. Ask Questions always !! People feel they should not ask questions but this is so important.
YourOnlineListener
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Jan 13, 2021
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So when people can't get the exact things they want from their doctors there are some solutions they can go for, 1. Write down every symptom and some important ones with date. 2. Write down the questions before the appointment. 3. Feel comfortable with your doctor. There's nothing to be embarassed about so don't hide pains even if they sound embarassing to say. A doctor has taken an oath before he took the job so whatever happens he won't tell anybody about what you said. 4. Remember that even if your symptoms may show a major illness and need intense treatment you still need to be very honest with your doctor. Never ever hide symptoms.
Heretosupportxo
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Jan 17, 2021
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It depends on what you actually need. If you want some medication, maybe you wouldn't be able to get it because your doctor knows better than you what should you drink or no. If it's about psychotherapy, like you may want CBT or similar, you can recommend it to your doctor and tell him/her what you actually want. You can't get anything if you don't talk about what you want. So, just a conversation about it can change things. But this is anxiety Q&A so you're maybe asking this because you're scared and don't know how to tell them what you want. I can recommend writing it on paper and just giving your doctor that. It may be really, really hard, but if you don't try you logically won't get what you want. Fight for it. Fight for your health. You deserve it.
kindnessisamust
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Jan 23, 2021
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When you see your doctor, you should be clear and detailed about your symptoms. For common mental conditions such as depression and anxiety, your doctor will decide on the course of treatment based on what you tell them.
For example, instead of saying "I feel tired", be more detailed, like "I feel tired in the morning, but later this feeling goes away".
There are multiple forms of depression and anxiety, which may require different treatments - by being specific about your symptoms, your doctor will be able to determine the specific type of depression/anxiety - and give you the necessary treatment.
Anonymous
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Feb 17, 2021
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It really depends on what you need from your doctor. Communication with your doctor about symptoms, signs you're experiencing are the best way to figure out -what it is you need. If the doctor doesn't know what's wrong they are in a position they can't fulfill their duties of helping their patients. What I suggest is making a list of the symptoms and rating them 1-10 how bad they are and then make an appointment with your doctor to let them know what's going on so that they can begin a course of action to help you get better
Lighthouse10
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Mar 11, 2021
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The best way to get your needs is always to be straightforward in asking for them, whether it's your doctor or anyone else, because people can't read your mind, so unless you state it you might not get it simply because they don't know you need it. Ofcourse coming smoothly, showing them appreciation and respect, not being too pushy or criticizing their judgement if they are suggesting something else, will make the process easier. In the end if it's a good doctor they will want what's best for you, and are likely to want to fulfill your needs if it's in your best interest.
mrlimers15
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Apr 8, 2021
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Be honest and share any information that you want to share with your doctor. Do not be afraid to seek help and work on yourself so that you can feel better physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
Hear and adhere to their advice and don't be afraid to question the purpose of their recommendations. It might be intimidating to question a doctor but assure them that understanding the why of things will help you achieve whatever goals you might have.
A doctor will not judge and their purpose is to help you achieve health in every aspect possible so don't be afraid to ask.
Izzy274
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Apr 10, 2021
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It can be really hard to know what you need and then how to go about getting it from your doctor, especially since healthcare systems are so complex and different depending on where you are. Here are a few options you could possibly think about, but I don't know your full situation so could never know what would be best for you.
- It depends on what you want - if it is a medication, the doctor may have a reason for not prescribing it, which you could talk about. If it's for a treatment, you could present to them what you want and then have a discussion about it together.
- Perhaps try writing down what you want to get out of a conversation beforehand, so you can make some clear & concise points and don't leave out anything.
- Ask questions if you don't understand why the doctor is doing something, whilst still keeping an open mind towards it.
- Become your own advocate and research the treatments you want before putting them forward to the doctor.
- Remember the doctor is here to help and you are not an inconvenience to them!
Anonymous
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May 16, 2021
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You can get what you need from your doctor by communicating exactly what those needs are. Communication with your doctor or health professional is key! I am sure they will be more than welcome to work with you in order to address those needs and get you the correct care. Continue being an advocate for yourself and obtain those resources. You can always jot down a list for you to remember that way you can express yourself freely and openly without forgetting any potential information that may be important for them to use. Give them all the information you have in order to get your needs satisfied properly. Hope this helps.
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