How can I get what I need from my doctor?

That's a great question! It depends very much on the specifics of the situation, but here are some ideas which may help you - If you feel you are not putting across your message across clearly, it may be worth writing a list of things you want to say and questions you want to ask before going to meet your doctor Another idea which might help is to look at having a trusted relative or advocate who you feel understands your needs to come with you to talk to your doctor - If this is possible, they could provide moral support or interject on your behalf if you need it. A third option is, if you feel your doctor is not listening to you or taking your need seriously, you could always arrange to see a different doctor. There is one more important thing to add to this. No-one knows your situation better than you, and it is great that you are determined to get what you need. Also hear what the doctor is saying and give it some thought. If they are understanding what you are asking for but advising against it, perhaps there is a good reason for this. However, even if this is the case, it never hurts to get a second opinion just to make sure. Good luck and I hope this helps :)

You need to go in telling them exactly what the problem is, e.g depression. - if you don’t tell they won’t give.

People often think that they have to do everything that their doctor says and this just isn't true. Doctors are people too and are capable of being incorrect or misguided just as anyone else. You know your body better than anyone will ever know it because you live within it. Be firm, tell them what you are looking for and what you need. If they don't try to work with you I would change doctors.

Don't forget to say how long have you had the illness, when was the first symptoms occured, what should you do/drink to stop and prevent it?

It depends on what you need, if it's a prescription usually the doctor's advice is best, however, you can have a sit down chat with them and argue your case.

Prepare yourself by getting information about what you need (if it is a procedure/meds etc.), be honest and describe as good as you can why you need it.

Make sure it is a reasonable issue and always just book an appointment and spill out to your doctor tell them what you need and that you need their help. Be confident and of course the doctor will be more than happy to help you and advise you as well as maybe referring you to the person that they know would be able to hep you more.

Try to explain to your doctor what your needs are, perhaps write it down to help explain. Ask them questions to ensure that they are clear and if you are unhappy with your doctor then dont be afraid to try to find one that might be more helpful with your needs.

Collectively through my personal experiences the best way to utilize a doctor's visit requires simple things. Before you go to the doctor's know exactly why you are going, reason why you're visiting, their offices' requirements (policy, insurance, monies, etc) and going above to seek information about that particular doctor's office including their services, doctor information, and other miscellaneous things. Once you are with your doctor feel free to explain your needs, ask any questions, and answer his questions to the best of your ability. All these simple things will make sure your visit truthfully will help you in your reason for attending the doctor's in the first place.

Write down how you’re feeling as far in advance of your doctors appointment as possible. Don’t just wait till the last minute! Take some time before the appointment to summarize how you’ve been feeling and what you want you doctor to know. It might help to even write down your list so you can consult it during the appointment. After your period of reflection, consider specific things your doctor might be able to help you with more specifically. You could try to do some research online, or just aim to narrow down your concerns into a descriptive narrative. Work to present your needs in a clear and concise fashion but thanks to your detailed reflection, you can be confident you won’t leave anything out.