How can I convince myself that my friends don't hate me? I have this irrational fear that they actually hate me.
Zizi2906
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Mar 2, 2018
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They are your friends, you should be able to be honest and open with them. Speak to them about this, but I'm sure they will tell you that they definitely love you!
Anonymous
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Mar 9, 2018
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you don't have to convince yourself about anything, just don't think anything, don't want anything, don't need anything. don't care about what people think, just do what you should do, and care for your business.
Anonymous
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Mar 16, 2018
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Talk to your friends about how you feel and why you feel that way. Sometimes having a support group can be very helpful.
Anonymous
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Mar 30, 2018
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Realize that you are wanted and loved and the belief that you are not is wrong. Once you believe the opposite you will see things differently.
LilGolfish
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Apr 6, 2018
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Ask them straight out if they hate you. If you are too scared or too shy then come write down a lists of reasons why they should like you and reasons why they shouldn't. Remember to right now why you think that way. Think of all they things they did for you, all the smiles spent for you. Think of your greatest and happiest moments.
Anonymous
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Apr 12, 2018
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This is a totally common feeling to have, unfortunately, but you just have to remind yourself that your friends choose to hang out with you, and have chosen you to be in their lives. Don’t underestimate your worth!
Anonymous
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Apr 18, 2018
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The best way to know the answer is to ask your friends directly and confide in them your fear. At least one of them would have a genuine answer and you would know. Otherwise you can simply ask them how you can improve as a person and a friend.
Anonymous
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Apr 27, 2018
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We all have insecurities in our lives, and you surely aren’t alone. What you really need to look at is if you love yourself. If you love yourself more, you will start to see that you’re friends don’t hate you.
Anonymous
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May 2, 2018
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Sounds like you are expierencing anxiety, which is totally ok. You can ask your friends how they feel about you. If you are unconfortable doing this you can try challenging these negative thoughts.
SouthernSweetTea
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May 5, 2018
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Why would your friends hate you? If they are your friends then of course they don't hate you. Everyone has those types of fears from time to time. If someone hates you then they wouldn't be around you. They wouldn't call you a friend.
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