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Do people actually like me for me?

Profile: dotty
dotty on Dec 24, 2014
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No one knows this for sure. But as long as they like me, why bother? usually people like us for several reasons, not for "the entire of me". some like my looks, some like my devotion (despite looks), some like me for being a balanced person...so on so on.
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 31, 2014
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Absolutely! You're wonderful and have a right to have people like you for who you are. I'm sure you're a wonderful person who is genuinely liked.
Profile: HealingLotus
HealingLotus on Apr 11, 2015
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This is a difficult question. Some people do not like you for you, a lot don't, but that's just human nature, it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with them. Having people like you for you, or anyone for themselves is something that humanity has sought after more desperately than anything. It is our hearts true desire. It's not as common as we'd like it to be, but it is possible that it does exist. We must be careful who we are friends with, making sure we have appropriate boundaries and healthy social habits. The more healthy we are, the more quality, understanding and empathetic people we will meet.
Profile: PashT007
PashT007 on May 9, 2015
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There are always people out there that will like you for you. The thing is, make sure that you are happy within yourself, that way if someone doesn't like you that's fine as well.
Profile: StrawberryNight
StrawberryNight on May 20, 2015
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Yes, I know that you are a wonderful person and I know that you deserve to be liked for who you are. And I'm sure the people surrounding you see that as well :)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 28, 2015
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If you really want to know, the best thing that you can do is to ask them! (: Consider being up front about your feelings. You might feel better after talking things out, rather than feeling bogged down by an unanswered question, or by speculation.
Profile: NattyByNature
NattyByNature on Jun 22, 2015
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Well it depends on the person. You will have people who will love you and care for you, and then you will have other people in your life where they are negative spirited and will try to bring you down. Don't believe why the negative people say because they will succeed in bringing you down if you feed into it. Also don't worry about people liking you. You should like yourself. That's all that matters
Profile: Br33zyS3tz
Br33zyS3tz on Sep 1, 2015
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This should never even be a doubt; you are amazing and unique, so valuable and worthy; believe in yourself, and never question your character in light of other people's perceptions; be you and be proud, be strong and know that others do like, love and appreciate you for you, for who you are.
Profile: GittleLeo
GittleLeo on Sep 28, 2015
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I think the question here, is: Why am I afraid to tell you who I am? The answer is because you might not like who I am and that is all I have. Show everyone all the good you have and don't sell yourself too short, we are often our own worst critics.
Profile: ZheGhostD1
ZheGhostD1 on Jan 18, 2016
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There are two types of people. People who like you for looks, wealth, popularity, etc. And their are people who like you for your personality. Always associate only with the second group. Those are "Friends"
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