Am I a poser?

Does it matter if you are? What matters most is how you feel about yourself. We all project an image of ourselves to other people. The question is: do you feel like you have to pretend to be someone you're not in order to win the affection or respect of others? If you do, then people are not really respecting you, just the person you are pretending to be. It may be easier and better to be yourself. People who hide and pretend strongly fear rejection, but rejection is a normal part of life. It won't kill you, trust me. Know yourself, love yourself, be yourself--and you will be happy and secure.

No, You are not. Never think it and never let anyone tell you that. We all do what we want to do. We are in this world for ourselves, not for anyone. Then why do you care what someone thinks of you. What people think of you is none of your business. Stick to being you, because you have chosen to be this way. Be yourself! Be Happy!

The official definition of a poser is "a person who acts in an affected manner in order to impress others." In other words, one who acts like something they are not. In order to be a poser you have to lie to yourself to make others happy. synonym for poser is "show-off".

Everyone is a poser in some way or form, it's how we function as humans. We have a need to adapt to our surrounding environment and this is usually the way in which we do it.

Based on a theory of symbolic interactionism in sociology, we are all posers, and so, no one is!!!!!

Do not worry about how other people see you. Worry about what you feel and picture yourself as. You are in control of your own life, you can be anything you want to be.

Why would you say that you are? The question suggests insecurity, which is something that most of us have to face. And sometimes that requires living by the idea of "fake it 'till you make it."

Let me answer this question with a favorite quote of mine “If you spent your life concentrating on what everyone else thought of you, would you forget who you really were? What if the face you showed the world turned out to be a mask... with nothing beneath it?” Are you projecting to the outside world the same image you have on the inside?

I feel like that is something you need to evaluate yourself. Like all those corny quotes we have heard all of our life, why be anyone else, but you?

What is a poser? Someone who assumes a particular attitude or stance, especially with the hope of impressing others. Everyone does that! Whether it is to impress your teachers, your boss or even your crush. Think of yourself as an evolving human being who changes themself to provide themself the best chance to survive- or in this case, to be liked and accepted! Hope I helped.