Should I tell my partner or friend I am a recovering addict?
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Updated: Sep 7, 2021
Anonymous
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Nov 4, 2014
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Every situation is unique, and I can only share my personal experience. That said, I am pretty open about the fact that I am a recovering alcoholic and drug addict. I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, and I would rather people in my life know this fundamental thing about me. (It also avoids potentially awkward situations like someone offering me a drink.) People who would take issue with me doing the right thing and treating my disease of addiction are not the sort of folks I wish to be around today.
Anonymous
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Jan 2, 2015
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If you feel that you should, just make sure that its at the appropriate time. Recovery is something to be proud of and should not be "shelved" as something to hide, its an accomplishment, a sigh of strength and not weakness.
Chiri
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Oct 3, 2014
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Being honest will take a huge weight of off your shoulders. You will feel better after this. You won't have the feeling that you keep something hidden.
SaraC13
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Oct 31, 2014
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Do whatever feels right for you at the moment just know that your past addiction does not define you.
JesseyJo
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Nov 8, 2014
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Yes, most definitely. It is always good to admit you're a recovering addict. If you can admit it, then you are definitely going down the right path. Never be ashamed. You recovered for a reason, and that is a huge change. Never be afraid to admit your biggest problems.
Inara92
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Nov 7, 2014
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Being honest about your addiction can make some situations less difficult to you, you could explain your triggers and create a more safe environment. nonetheless if you don't feel comfortable talking about it know that how much of yourself you decide to share it's only up to you!
ImperfectlyPerfect
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Nov 10, 2014
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Sometimes, honesty is really the best policy. No one can help you recover unless they know your struggles.
CMThornRose
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Nov 11, 2014
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It'd be best to be honest from the beginning as it won't confuse things later on. Either way it is more than likely to come out and if you keep it locked up it'll effect you in a very negative way.
leahlistens2
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Feb 15, 2016
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Part of recovery is having a support system. If you think it will help you on your path to recovery, Let people in to that world and allow them to help you stay on track.
amazingRainfall28
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Feb 21, 2017
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That is a very personal decision which in reality only you can answer.
Looking at the pro's and cons of telling them.
Why you would tell them?:Wanting to be honest. Having them their as support and ensuring they understand your situation. Beimg accepted for who you are.
Why wouldn't you tell them? : fear of being judged. People acting differently around you. Not wanting the pressure of others knowing incase you have a slip up.
Being honest with yourself about your reasons is very important when coming making this decision.
Honesty is really important in healthy relationships and you deserve to be accepted for who you are.
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