How to trust someone again who has consistently lied?
helpfulKitty48
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Feb 10, 2018
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Get to know them all over again. Find their positive spots and decide if they are really willing to gain your trust again.
joyfulMoment29
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Apr 25, 2018
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Error is always a error..but we are not robots to be 💯% accurate at things..yes if he did mistake 100 times forgive him all the 100 times and say u trust him..atleast he will realise 101 time...your trust is Ur weapon to stop him telling lies
Anonymous
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Jun 16, 2018
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If the person is constantly lying it helps to reevaluate the relationship you have with them. If you choose to continue with the relationship try practicing forgiveness excersises.
Brittany8013
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Jul 11, 2018
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This is a very good question. Perhaps trying to understand why they lied will help. often times people who consistently lie, are looking for a sense of control. If they feel there lives are spiraling around them, it can cause them to lie in order to control the attention or reaction they get from others. Understanding why they are doing this can help build that trust again.
slimreaperr
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Jul 12, 2018
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Nobody can give you an easy answer to this question. You first need to decide whether it's worth having a relationship with this person at the risk of being lied to/hurt in the future. And if it is, then you can either dive into it, or tip toe back into it. Either which way, nobody is going to be able to promise you that this person is someone you can trust in the long run. You have to follow your gut on that one. And don't feel guilty if you want to ease gently back into the relationship instead of fully dive into it.
SeaShell55
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Jul 13, 2018
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After seeing someone willing to change and acting on that feeling is a comfort and start to trusting.
adamantSpectre
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Jul 18, 2018
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Communicate with them and express what you need to rebuild the trust. It must be something they can commit to. Hold them to what they said or move on.
alex45678
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Nov 22, 2018
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Talk to them ask them why they constantly lie to you and depending on what the lies are about it may not be appropriate to trust them again you are worth more than that. Don’t let someone miss treat you. And make sure they actually want to change and create a relationship or friendship built on trust not lies. It’s important to trust someone close to you. If you can’t trust them they haven’t proven that the deserve you and your trust. I hope this helped a little I’ve had a lot of relationships ruined by lies. Hope it gets better
Anonymous
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Dec 16, 2018
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I think that you need to think again if you really want to forgive this person. I have been in that situation and I choose to forgive. It wasn't the best choice, because usally the person won't stop lying. They really find different ways to lie and I have witnessed it, human don't change they just make a illusion of change and it's your choice to believe that illusion or not. I only understand that after two years of forgiving lies and one day I had enough, it's hard to trust people who are constantly lying. But you need to remember that everyone is different and if you really think that they need you forgivness then I think you won't have this question.
shanjul8
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Jun 27, 2019
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Before you can even begin to trust your partner again, you first need to trust yourself — your inner knowledge of what's right and wrong for you. We have all been blessed with two sources of knowing — our feelings and the wisdom that pops into our mind from our higher guidance. When you learn to trust your feelings about your partner and learn to trust the wisdom that is always here for you, then you become truly trustworthy of yourself. This means that you stop ignoring that inner whisper and start listening to what you know in your heart and soul.
Then and only then will you be able to discern what is true and what isn't about your partner and the relationship. With self-trust, you will be able to feel — and believe — when he or she is lying or trying to take advantage of you in a way that erodes trust.
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