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How to trust someone again who has consistently lied?

Profile: CLAYhere4you
CLAYhere4you on Nov 27, 2015
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Trusting someone is not a given you must earn trust in order to be connected to that person.And if you have trusted that person and they break that trust it puts you and them in a difficult situation because to care for someone and have friendship there has to be boundaries and one of the most important boundaries is trust.When that boundary is broken it is hard to build it back up.Trust is like a house you must build a house in order to live in it right well when you have mutual trust its like living in the house but when you become dishonest now the house has been burned you now must rebuild the house again but it takes time to build it back up again.The most important thing to remember is know matter what be yourself and if you are put in a situation were you might feel you are being lied to its ok not to trust them right away it takes time and understanding. (I hope I was helpful and thanks for reading)😀
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Profile: moabher
moabher on Nov 27, 2015
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No one is sinless , we all angels no body make no mistakes we have first to learn hot to forgive , how be telorent persons , remember how many timesu made mistake and how many persons forgive u before u need to remember that person good things
Profile: Jerome28
Jerome28 on Nov 29, 2015
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I believe there's something to trust in everyone, even if I have to trace my way to the core of the individual. Surface influences sway individuals to act in dysfunctional or even neurotic ways. I may not be able to trust someone to tell the truth or be reliable, but I can trust in the individual at the root of their being.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 29, 2015
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How can I trust someone again?.. based on my experience *as I trust everyone easily* I always make some challenging questions/ fake but challenging situations for them to answer/do. Once I saw them do the same thing like they always did, I won't trust that person that much anymore. but when I saw something new and satisfying I will trust them like how I did
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 3, 2015
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Start out slowly and make them Gain your trust back,be careful for yourself also trusts easy to loose hard to gain but just ease your trust in and you should be fine.
Profile: HelpfulNinja
HelpfulNinja on Dec 4, 2015
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Put simply, it is not a very good idea to just trust someone who has consistently lied, however, that being said, you shouldn't not give them any chance to redeem themselves. You should gradually give them small task that will display some trust in them and then as they do these thing you will gradually learn to trust them more. However, do not put your guard down, it is important to make sure you are not endangering yourself by trusting them again.
Profile: incarnadinepetals
incarnadinepetals on Dec 6, 2015
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You have to make them gain trust slowly through communication and honesty. This process might take a while, but at least you'll know for sure by the end it is worth trusting this person again.
Profile: Soldrew2015
Soldrew2015 on Dec 9, 2015
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I say this is going to be a tough one. But i really don;t want to deny an ear to anyone. maybe I'll just have to put up limitations. Possibly ask a few questions as well to verify the authenticity of the given statement and maybe say no when things really gets so doubtful. With this, we can avoid hurting someone while being too cautious at the same time.
Profile: StormyAngles18
StormyAngles18 on Dec 25, 2015
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Trust is something that's hard to gain once its been lost but it takes a lot of time to rebuild it if you really want to give that trust back. Don't let one experience mess up your trust for everyone else.
Profile: Supporter0498
Supporter0498 on Dec 31, 2015
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I think you give them another try at the friendship, rebuilding trust, can rebuild a friendship!
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