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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 17, 2016
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Just be yourself and talk to the authority as if he/she is just another person. He/she has a label of an authority doesn't mean he/she is better than you. He/she still eats, goes to the bathroom, and goes to sleep just like each of one us. That's how I feel comfortable talking to anyone I meet.
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Profile: rachelq
rachelq on Aug 9, 2017
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You can be respectful. You can address them as sir, ma'am, Mr. ____, or Mrs.____. You don't have to be uptight, authority figures are people too. It's okay to make light-hearted jokes, just maintain respectfulness.
Profile: marvelousMermaid87
marvelousMermaid87 on Jun 23, 2016
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It's important to remain calm and collected. Know what you want to achieve and think logically, planning what you want to say beforehand. If it isn't as formal as this and it is just a catch up, just try to remember they are just there to help. They may well be older or in a high position, but your care is important to them and being open and honest will help you both.
Profile: aestheticmind
aestheticmind on Jul 1, 2016
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With the authority, conversation should be held executively. Be straight and clear in what you are trying to say. Do not jumble up with your words. Keep them short yet impressive. And smile often.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 8, 2016
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Practice talking to authority in a mirror. Be calm. Stand straight. Be honest and stand your ground, but know the limitations of that relationship too. Sounding weird when talking to authority might be reasonable cause for said authority to suspect something, so take care!
Profile: hopefulSun65
hopefulSun65 on Jun 13, 2018
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Adapt a professional tone and behaviour. Fake it till you make it and you wont feel awkward. Learn to become comfortable in your own skin and with who you are as a unique individual.
Profile: Eleuthromaniac
Eleuthromaniac on Jul 13, 2018
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Being as professional and to the point as possible is the best way to not only sound intelligent to authority but also give point that you are in control of yourself and thoughts and you are firm in what you say and do and thus shows maturity to the authority figure and allots them to treat you with more respect and understanding.
Profile: WaywardMaze
WaywardMaze on Oct 11, 2018
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We all think we sound weird when talking to others! In a public speaking course, I learned that fear of public speaking rates higher for people than the fear of death. Speaking to an authority figure is much the same, because you feel like you have a spotlight on you and that every word is being scrutinized as if under a microscope. So much of that fear is our own perception of ourselves and the short answer to your problem is that the more you practice something, the easier it becomes. Role play with friends and family who can give you constructive feedback on the way you sound and point out when they think you "sound weird" or are making common speaking mistakes, such as stammering, using words like "um" or using the word "like" too frequently. You can overcome this obstacle, but it requires practice and confidence! Best of luck to you!
Profile: enchantingMelon53
enchantingMelon53 on Dec 2, 2018
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Just be yourself. That is the most simple thing to do. Do not even change yourself to authority or whoever you wish to talk to. Be yourself, calm down, relax. They are likely to be humans just like you are, so there is no need to actually feel embarrassed to do things wrong - we all do things wrong sometimes and it is not bad at all to have an embarrassing situation. They can help us to improve and work on ourselves and with each step you are doing, you will grow. You see, it is not even bad or something like that - you just need to look at it from a different perspective.
Profile: Allybean
Allybean on Jun 22, 2016
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be respectful, confident and keep your thoughts simple and direct. Make eye contact and smile and only say what you know to be true, don't make things up
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 23, 2016
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If you sound weird when you talk to people who you see as higher ranking, it would probably be because of being nervous or wanting to impress them or something :P I think talking to them often would help with the nerves, and maybe establishing boundaries and 'manners' in your head will help you talk to them in a more natural way while still respecting them. As for wanting to impress them, that's pretty good as it can motivate you to do great things, go for it :)
Profile: shysoda
shysoda on Jun 24, 2016
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Most authority just don't like to be talked down to. Just be sure to include their surname and be respectful and understand their stress and their duties and respect those.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 29, 2016
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Someone who seems confident and knows what they are doing is an easy person to respect. Someone in authority is a leader, and leaders have followers. So maybe you don't sound weird and you just need a boost of confidence.
Profile: sunshineApricot92
sunshineApricot92 on Jul 1, 2016
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Be polite and respectful when speaking to authority. This way they understand you more clearly. Try to be too emotional.
Profile: Remina
Remina on Jul 5, 2016
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What do you mean by sound weird? If by weird, you mean nervous, it can just be a matter of taking small quiet breaths before talking. If it is what you say, it be a matter of thinking before you speak.
Profile: MPuffin
MPuffin on Jul 5, 2016
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remember that they are exactly like you cause they are human too. their title does not make them more important than you in the grand scheme of things.
Profile: SweetSara16
SweetSara16 on Jul 6, 2016
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I understand how it could get weird when talking to authority. It can be exhausting just thinking about what to say and how to say it. When you're approaching someone with authority, a few characteristics come to mind like confidence, leadership and charisma. With that, focus on keeping your tone strong and motivated, your posture high and in line with that other person, and your words straight to the point. Maintain eye contact and smile from time to time, as you imagine yourself having just as much confidence, leadership and charisma as the person in front of you. It helps to rehearse similar situations through self-visualizations. If there is a particular situation that concerns you, let's set up a time to chat. Happy to see you're on 7 Cups for support!
Profile: RobVL
RobVL on Jul 8, 2016
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Hahaha, hmmm. As long as there is authority, I guess we all will sound weird when talking to them. As long as you understand that they are still human and in no way better than you apart from being given more responsibility, communication should be comfortable.
Profile: PaleRose12
PaleRose12 on Jul 9, 2016
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I do not understand what do you mean by "Talking weird" please rewrite and send again thank you for using 7 cups
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 10, 2016
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When talking to authority just talk to them like you would to any other human being but with most respect
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