?My wife is constantly criticizing me and I feel like I can’t do anything right. We are on the currently split up and on the verge of divorce. I feel so lost. Any suggestions?
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Last Updated: 10/08/2018 at 1:42pm
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Anonymous
August 21st, 2018 9:09am
You need to sit and communicate before you make the final step. You need to see why she is doing that, because there is a reason for every action people make, therefore, make efford see why she is making it, and if after that you see it cant work than you can go on to divorce. But think of all possible ways before that, because that is a easy way but we never know what is the reason behind other people actions. We need to understand them and after that you can make the decision if you can go on or not.
It can hurt to feel criticized & not feel good enough. If I were you I might write a pros and cons list of staying together. I'd also put stars next to the ones that were most important to me. See if that brings any insight. You may also want to think about talking to a counselor. Divorce can bring up a lot of grief and pain and it might be helpful to have some kind of support in place.
Anonymous
October 8th, 2018 1:42pm
You need to show some patience at this time. Try to show love to her and try to compromise. If she shouts at you with anger, reply her with love, because it will act as a tool between both you for removing the wall of separation between both of you guys. If you guys have children from each other, you can use them as a tool to keep her with you. If she criticizes you, try not to give her any reason to criticize you. It will help a lot in keeping the relation better. I hope that my suggestion works for you.
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