How can I deal with my flaws that keep getting me into trouble?
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Anonymous - Expert in Forgiveness
August 27th, 2018 6:17am
Flaws are present in all, yet one has to pay in detail to theirs flaws or the loopholes, and mend them so that their flaws get replaced with good strengths.
1) Start to cut down bad habit like procrastination, cause this increases our chances to get in to troubles.
2) Know that you have strength , so embrace them.
3) Never ignore the flaws like bad habits that you may have, and never judge or blame yourself too, rather be optimistic and tell yourself you can do well.
4) Think before you act, this is the best and simple way to prevent getting in to the troubles.
5) Make use of the time in a proper way, cause once we start to ignore the importance of time it paves our way to troubles in academic, social and even personal live as well.
So, keep good hopes alive and start to lower the things that you feel are your faults and embrace all the strengths you have.:):)
Anonymous - Expert in Forgiveness
December 12th, 2017 3:08am
Everyone has flaws and nobody is perfect. Just make sure to forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made and learn from them.
By giving them a hard honest look preferably with another person that their opinion you trust. Sometimes a life coach might be of help.
the first thing I would say is to accept your flaws. They are there in everyone. No one is perfect. remember that. Not even me. I am pathetic in maths, I keep on breaking stuff, I trip on nonexistent things and I make mistakes. its okay. we all are humans and we make mistakes. plus if you are saying about getting into trouble then I would say that why don't you start some mindfulness? its a kind of meditation thing that helps you know yourself more and grow. Maybe that way you will exempt from getting into trouble. and yeah don't forget I am always here for you. bye bye!
Nobody is perfect here. Every one is full of flaws. Perfection is somewhat boring too. And humans are supposed to do mistakes in order to learn something valuable. But as a human we have to keep an eye on our flaws. First step is to recognise our flaws, 2nd step is to accept them buy stop justifying or reasoning them. Once we accept our flaws it is easy to improve ourselves. We must live in state of improving ourselves always. To Avoid getting into trouble requires to overcome your flaws by keep in mind what you learned before. Its a slow process but once you start sticking to lessons you have learned you would be able to avoid the consequences.
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