How to stop hating your little sister?

My little sister and I do our best to understand each other. I /don't/ hate my little sister. In fact, we're best friends. I usually try to place myself in my little sister's shoes, and do my best to cherish our relationship. She's a precious girl that I've been given the privilege of being able to call "sister".

If she's younger, she may not realize what she's doing. Talk with her or maybe your parents about it. Being at home will become stressful if you're in a close environment with her, and you'll find yourself getting annoyed at her and maybe other members of your family a lot quicker than usual.

The word 'little' is a keyword here, if she's younger than me I'd like to play my elder sibling role being more responsible, she's little now but when she'd grow up she'll think of me a good brother/sister and will love me. I'd do anything to protect her from the wrong people, time will teach her about respecting elders. I will care for her and love her even when she's angry with me, because we're family and that's what we do :)

There must be a reason why you hate her, find out the key reason and deal with it. She is your sister and no matter what you do and where u go she will always be. So learn to forgive and let go to have a better relationship.

Ok, so I deal with this as well. But I kinda have an explanation (based on my religion, but I am no trying to impose it to anyone, just the explanation might help): we usual reencarnate with people that we must work past life problems with; so, I suppose I had huge problems with my brother. I remember myself everyday that he doesn't have this knowledge therefore I can help raise him into someone good and not let him keep being this person that for a few reasons makes me hate them. So, I teach him about matters that are important to me (e;g; lgbtq+. feminism,...). However, is important for you to know that even though if you work on your hate you'll be evolving, feeling anger eventually is OKAY, is human, it's okay for you to not like anyone. You can work on your hate, and still you don't have the obbligation of loving her. Just letting the hate go is a huge step; xx

Think of how cute they were when they were younger. Then remind yourself what you were like at their age, and try to think of their needs. Most of the time, as elder siblings, we are more selfish and fail to see how our actions may affect our younger siblings. Be kinder, tolerant, and realise that you were once as, if not more annoying at that age.

Think about this: Hate is such a horrible feeling. Maybe you have your reasons but it's not healthy to hate your sister. Try to erase that feeling and think about good things of her.

Hate is a strong word. You're probably just annoyed with her. You have to realise that she is your sister, one of the strongest relations of them all. Remember that she is only little and she honestly in all sense of the word is clueless compared to most. Be patient and what I like to do is just observe her, know that she is living too. Remember she wont be small forever, so try to build a connection at a young age because you might regret it at later years.

Well first off you need to try to pin point why you think you hate her? Once you have piece that together well now its time to find a solution. This hate is actually hurting you, stressing you out and eating at you. Try to find an outlet for your anger, Like working out or music or writing whatever you like to do when you are stressed out.

Firstly, assess the reason behind the hate - have she done something offending towards you or does she have a habit that you dont like or are you jealous of her (she gets more attention/love) -- To move on you need to be honest with yourself and ask what is the reason? If this is something her fault then talk to them -- tell her the truth and try to mend the relationship. If its your own inferiority then you need to work on yourself.

hate is a strong word,and for your family you don't hate, you love her,try and forget the way she is

Family is important, and siblings can indeed really push our buttons sometimes. But having a sibling can be a wonderful thing too. It is someone who is in your house who can be a friend who is around a lot, someone you can rely on and also be there for. Every relationship even friendships and sibling relationships benefits from communication, if your younger sibling is doing something to make you upset, then you have to let them know and let them know that it hurts your feelings. Then explore solutions to move past that issue, if this is young siblings, parents can be great to assist in this regard. If we are talking about adult siblings then do something nice for your sister, or suggest you both get coffee and treat her before you tell her why you are feeling the way you do. I think that could lead to some pretty surprising positive results.

Start spending time with her. Hang out with her and care for her. Take time to understand her and the things she loves.

Realize that you both are not alike and do not carry a grudge or be jealous of her successes. Do not ever compare yourself to her. Just accept her and love her! Life is difficult and when your parents and siblings are all gone then both of you will be all that you have left of your family. Forgive often and know that you each face challenges daily and they will not be the same! Try and reach out and not judge, and just except her for what she is right now, knowing that things can change, and that's ok!

Spend some time with her a little at a time and give her a few hugs here and there... one things that may help is setting a time of day you can spend with her and that might make the relationship better... even though you may hate her she’s still your little sister and it’s family we all have that person in the family we don’t like but it takes time to come to a medium between the two of you and a solution to that might be just talking to them more or just giving them a hug! That might just make their day and yours too!

With siblings, it's often really easy to grow tired or annoyed of them, considering how you've lived their early years with them. I found that whenever I start to feel hateful emotions towards my younger siblings, I take a break. I withdraw from them for a few hours and focus on other things. Eventually when I face them again, my hate has toned down and I realize how the emotions I've felt where at their extreme point earlier. Also, the benefit of fighting or being angry with your siblings is the fact that you share a roof with them and if the issue is complex, you can easily talk about it with them or have your parents mediate.

Sibling relationships are always difficult. The key is patience, as hard as that may be, and try not to respond to violence, as that will encourage them to continue the conflict in most cases. I’ve seen several pairs of kids who engage in fighting because they’re bored, but as for hating a little sister, really just be patient with her. If she’s smaller than you she will probably want your attention, even if it’s the wrong kind. Try to be generous and caring, even loving if possible, though that is definitely challenging through childhood, and just realize it’s not uncommon at all to feel this way.

You must accept everything about her, you cannot change it. She's younger and different than you, and it is something you will grow to understand, and she will begin to change, whether it is for the worse or for the better. But either way, she is your sister, so you must provide unconditional love, support, and be someone she can look up to.

Acknowledge her situation and how she must feel. It might just be a phase or temporary what you feel towards her and look at the bright side. Look at the joy and benefits she is bringing towards your life instead of the negativity.

Siblings are tough, especially younger ones. Try bonding with her more and creating a better relationship with her.

1) Know that she is simply...born, and didnt ask to be born...and not to hold it against her that she is part of your family. 2) Know that she loves you very much, or respects you...thinks the world of you...really, you are her hero/heroine. She unconditionally, genuinely likes you. 3) She will be the person who cries with you, hug you and console you when dad/mom pass away. And even though she is hurting...she will make sure, you hurt less, and always seek to address your needs first, before her own needs. (even if hugging you is awkward to her.)

By simply accepting that they are your siblings can help you love them more. Think of the time they first learned your name. Think of the happy moments u have spent with them.

Sibling rivalry has been around for as long as there have been siblings. If you're an older sibling, you likely find some of your younger counterpart's behavior frustrating. Little sisters can be annoying. Sometimes they are still learning how to behave with maturity. Sometimes their behavior tempts you to use immature tactics yourself! Fortunately, you can lesson the annoying impact of your little sister's behavior by remembering one important fact: she looks to you as a role model.[1] Respond to your sister's annoying qualities with maturity, and encourage her when she behaves well. Soon you'll find that she annoys you less -- and you'll enjoy your sibling relationship more.

Try to list the positive qualities of hers and talk about your relationship out with her. See where the source of hate comes from and see if you are doing anything toxic to her or if she is the toxic one. If you both are toxic to each other, then you should try having a calm conversation with her about it. Also, depending on your age, it is kind of common to have a lot of sibling hate in teen years since in those years, you are developing as a human. Try journaling out your feelings and try being calm instead of hating on your sister in front of her since it can impact her mental health Hope this helped xx

First of all, maybe analyzing the reason why you hate it so much might be a solution. Some brothers end up hating their younger siblings just because the amount of attention they get. However, there are a couple of things you might consider first : there is a blood connection between you. Family remains family remains family, no matter what. Maybe it is just a phase, siblings usually fight when they are young but end up being great friends in the future. So you might waot for that to happen, you'll realize that having a brother or a sister can be useful in many ways. Besides, if you think that they receive more attention, maybe consider that having a young child is hard for the parents. They have to take care of everything, just as they did to you. :)

Siblings may experience being the best of friends at times and the worst of enemies at other times. Though it is common for siblings to irritate one another, this irritation can escalate if both siblings are not properly caring for themselves and the relationship. Self respect is an important quality in a person in order to have stable and healthy relationships and fair boundaries. Many times an older sibling may feel responsible for his or her sibling or may feel guilty denying their younger siblings, however it is essential to learn that each person is solely responsible for his or her actions. When one child attempts to control the other, possibly mistaking supervision for control, spats can occur as one or more persons may feel disrespected or out of control of themselves. Older siblings should discuss the need for a safe space in the home so that they can take a break from other members of the household including younger siblings. Personal space is important for self care activities, self soothing, journaling or to develop mindfulness of present emotions. Older siblings may need to learn to set healthy boundaries with a younger sibling who is trying to seek attention in any number of undesirable ways. Older siblings need to become comfortable with saying “no” and sticking with their choice not to interact more frequently than they are comfortable. Older siblings can reward respectful behavior from younger siblings with attention or interest in what the younger sibling is interested in. If there is a history of bullying in the relationship, one of the siblings may want to request that interactions with one another occur only when an adult is present to ensure the interactions are fair and respectful and to seek adult help to foster healthy and safe interactions. Remaining calm and polite but firm with younger siblings can go a long way toward mutual respect in the relationship.

You have to realize that your sister is going to be there for you all your life long. She's going to be the one who you can go to when everything seems against you. Sometimes she is going to be hard to take but she's still young and she will learn to become mature as time goes on. You just need to be patient with her

By starting to love her. Dont think that u have become less imp because of her you are equally imp and will be. Dont be jealous just love her

Sometimes hating a sibling is all we seem to do but try to remember the good memories. Like the time you went fishing or when she was learning to cook.

In order to stop hating your little sister, perhaps is a good idea to play with her, share time toguether...