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My goal is to treat clients with respect and compassion. I am a supportive, strengths-based therapist with experience in treating mood disorders, grief, and trauma.
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Anonymous
May 26th, 2020 8:25pm
Before taking the label, first ask yourself why that someone would choose to use foul language to degrade you. People act badly or they simply react to something that may threaten their egos or security. Maybe the name calling is never meant to be personal. Taking it personal is a choice. It is always wise to pause when someone acts in a negative way toward you. Maybe there is not a conflict situation. That being too quick to judge the other person or even yourself could leave everyone feeling horrible. It is better to analyze the situation and plan a respond.
Ignore them. They are just jealous of your beauty. They must have some deep unresolved issues to enjoy insulting others.
Anonymous
February 12th, 2018 8:57pm
Ignore their rude comments. People like to say negative things because they may be jealous of you. Or they could be unhappy with their own life and dishing insults gives them a rise. Do not listen to them!
Anonymous
April 27th, 2020 3:23am
It's important to ignore it. People who say stuff like that usually "feed" themself with you getting angry or frustrated. If you keep ignoring it, they'll eventually stop. If you feel bad because of it, talk about it with someone you trust. Or a 7cups listener. Due to the fact that chats with 7cups listeners are usually anonymous, you can don't have to be afraid to be personally judged. Anyway, talking about it can be really helpful! That's because people tend to believe what they'll hear, so if someone calls you a "hoe", you often start to believe it. People you trust often drag you out of that thought.
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