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Why do I get over people so easily?

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You do not need to take a long time to get over people. The fact that you get over people quickly shows that you are more stable within yourself. You love yourself and you are confident that this universe will provide you with more, and better people to love. Why dwell and hang on to what has died, when one can look brightly at what is ahead.
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Profile: beautifulForest89
beautifulForest89 on Jun 16, 2016
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Because maybe you lack the emotional attachment due to the fact you've built walls to protect yourself?
Profile: TheGlovedOne
TheGlovedOne on Jul 8, 2016
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Because you are strong, and don't fully depend on others to take care of your every need. Once they let go, you realize that they are just a person faster than others.
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sereene on Jun 17, 2016
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There are many factors that could make you get "over" people easily, but most likely, it's not something to worry about because everyone is different. Perhaps you were prepared, whether consciously or subconsciously, to part with them and refrained from getting too attached. Or maybe you simply have a different way of coping with break-ups.
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Anonymous on Jan 18, 2017
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Chances are you've probably been hurt or have had your heart broken a lot in your lifetime which sometimes makes us less sensitive to losing people. After a while you start to grow stronger as a person which makes it easier to forget and get over people who have either wronged you or upset you in some kind of way. It's a coping mechanism that is honestly good to have because a lot of people like to use those who are hurt easily and can't get over others quite as easily to their advantage. Your a strong individual.
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greatfulGrace21 on Aug 18, 2016
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You may know that they aren't right for you and you deserve better. I'm that way too. I get over people easily most knowing that they aren't for me. And that there's someone better
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Anonymous on Aug 7, 2016
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That's a very hard question to answer. It might be because you don't really care about people to begin with. Maybe you've been keeping a certain distance between others and yourself so that when they leave, you don't get too upset which might be due to being badly hurt in the past. It could also mean nothing since we all deal with loss differently.
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phi123 on Dec 22, 2016
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Some people get over people easily. It may be because it takes you longer to develop strong feelings, it may be because you had been losing feeling for that person for awhile. It's not a bad thing that you may get over people easily :)
Profile: peacefulWinter54
peacefulWinter54 on Apr 28, 2017
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Personally I think that is a sign of strength. If you can tell yourself that you are better off without that person, for whatever reason, and you feel you don't need time to cope or recover, it makes much more room for happiness and for people you do care about.
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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If you are getting over people easily it usually means that you were not truly in love with that person. You may have not been truly very serious. It may have felt like the most serious relationship you have ever been in, but in reality it is rather basic. You will find someone who you will be more serious with. You will find someone truly worth fighting for! Do not give up or blame yourself!! It is not your fault.
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