We broke up, but I feel like I want to get back together with them. What should I do?

Measure the pros and cons...Do you feel that it is worth it? Or is that person the one???? If you think that you guys will not last long and will just break up, then don't pursue it..move on

I spent sometimes alone in the place i love. like the wood, forest, or just a simple landscape. It helped me to feel better, and I could sort out my feelings. When I figure it out, I'd see him, and tell him about what I want. and apologize, of course.

Determine if that would be what is best for you. Understand your situation fully before you make any sudden decisions. Decide if this is a healthy or unhealthy relationship.

See if it's something your partner wants to, and if so great, and if not maybe you should focus on yourself and if it's meant to be things will work out!

First, it's important to consider why you broke up in the first place, and than think about whether or not you would both be willing and able to work through and move past the problem. After this, if you are both open to giving your relationship a second chance, go for it. I'm all for second chances if done right. Good luck!!

reevaluate the reason why you broke up in the first place, if this problem hasn't changed already then it probably isn't going to change now. It will take a lot of work on both ends.

just listen to your heart, we have to get adjusted, accept people and situations. sometimes people will not mean to hurt you, but it happens because of situation or some other stress. accept the person, forgive the persona and start loving the person..... continue to love the person how difficult the situation is.... after all you love the person that is important

You should wait to see if the feeling will pass. It can be something impulsive, for instance, you are missing the memories you made with him, you are not missing him as a person. You should wait a few days and then see if you still feel the same and if you still want to get back together with him.

Talk to them. You already lost them, so you have nothing to lose. If they feel the same way then you will be so happy you asked. If not, at least you don't have to go through your life wondering what if.

I think this really depends on the reason you broke up. Relationships can be complicated. No one knows your feeling better than you. One thing you may want to try is giving it a little bit of time and talking through your reasons for leaving and wanting to get back together with someone on 7 cups, or a close trustworthy friend.

I know how you feel, the same happened to me. Things will work out, you may separate and find someone fantastic, or you may get back together and realise you were for eachother the whole time. things will get better, just give it time.

The urge to get back together is excruciatingly high, I know. But chances are, there was a reason why you two were broken up. It is hard to get over someone, but I recommend doing some of your favorite hobbies or activities or hanging out with friends!

Try to note down the reasons to why you broke up and why do you want to get back together. Now think have those reasons of break up diminished or not? Do the reasons for getting back together outweigh your reasons for break up?

the mind and the heart are separate in their thinking. people who follow their heart only tend to take the biggest risks. with bigger risks does come greater reward, but also greater failure. those who only follow their mind take the path that is a lesser risk of getting hurt, but they could live a life without ever getting what they desire. one has to follow the mind and heart together, in unison they will guide you down the best path. that being said, i followed my heart which told me to give my ex girlfriend a call. and my mind told me to do it because what did i have to lose? we were already broken up. one year later we are still dating.

Assess the situation first. Following your heart r doing something because you want it without thinking about it thoroughly often leads to being hurt and disappointed.

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The solution is to shift focus on what you would like and want, instead of letting your focus slide on them. If they are compatible with what you need, what you like, what you want, then naturally they will adopt the roles, naturally, no need to pressure them into the roles. By letting your focus slide on them, instead of your needs, basically you force them into the roles, and that's never good strategy (no one likes to be forced) The best way is to find, then know what You need and like, then put your focus on these, and let people fill the roles by their choice (there is attraction that forms because of the needs, so no need to search for individuals to fill the roles, they will come) Keep focusing on what you want and like, imagine it happening with a willing person (not necessarily those persons you talk about), and keep your focus there, because that's how you build it (it=anything) While giving them freedom to come or make place for someone willing.

I think you should be honest with them. Tell them that recently you've been having thoughts about getting back together and see what they think.

Determine if it will good for you to do so. If it is, reach out. If it is not, focus on what you need to do to be happy and what kind of person you want to be with and search out that person.

Look at the pros and cons of your relationship and reasons why you should be together against reasons why you shouldn't... remember to take into account the reason you broke up in the first place.

This is a common feeling for someone in a recent break-up. Understand why you broke up, and it may help you realize you can move on. :)

Break ups can be very difficult for anyone, there’s nothing quite like a sudden and painful end. Ask yourself the following questions before taking action: •How was your relationship? If it was good, strong between both of you, and you truly cared for each other, than this can be good. What were your faults? What were your wins? • How did it end? Dramatic ending can spell out defeat for future interactions. If you left on good terms, usually mutual agreement, then there’s room for something. •How is your relationship with them now? Being close friends doesn’t necessarily mean it can work out, you or the other person may want to keep the friendship you two have! •Lastly, do you really want to be back together with them? The initial relationship ended for a reason, take that into account! Once you’ve thought all of these through, the most important thing you can do is talk with the person of interest. Find out what went wrong, and if there are still feelings. What happens from there happens. Don’t act too negatively if the person rejects you, they may still feel uncomfortable or upset about the previous end of the relationship, or have another reason. Good luck!

Tell them that you miss them and would like to meet up and talk about things, see how they react. I hope it goes well for you!

It's completely fine to feel the way that you are! There is no problem with wanting to get back together, but it is quite important to ask yourself some key questions before you plan your next steps. Do you want to get back together with them or do you simply miss the idea of them? What were the reasons for the break up and does this change the way you view the other person? Has the other person changed and do you feel like you are a better self when you are with them? And most importantly, are you confident about your decision? These are great questions to give you more perspective on your situation and can provide you a lot of insight on your feelings. I am sending you my best wishes and hugs. No matter what happens, the whole 7 cups community is here to support you for anything that you need!

Does the other person also think as you ? If not then pointless to think about being together with your ex.

Do u feel that particular person is worth it?? Do they make u feel loved?? If not then you should try movin on..go for the ones who care for u the way u do..comfort urself wid something that makes u feel good..keep yourself busy.im sure it wil help you

And that my friend is where you start becoming a stalker. Not the creepy one though. Just know what he's upto and observe him. See if he's still into you. Look for some signs on the way he treats/looks at you, on his social media status, tweets, posts, etc. And when it's positive, go tell them. You might get back together just well. But if it's negative, Move On.

Tell him how you feel about him, let him know you still have feelings for him and that you both need to work on communicating and working on the relationship. From personal experiences of my own, I know it will help. You are strong, make the relationship stronger!

Talk to them and see if it is an option. If it is work on building a better relationship. If not then move on! Don't dwell!

Well, I think this completely depends on why you two broke up and if you honestly think you two can make it work. Have you had the opportunity to speak to your ex? Sometimes the best thing for anyone or any relationship is communication. Sit down with them and let them know what's on your mind. You never know, it may work out the way you want it to! :)