Should I tell my boyfriend that I cheated?

Not all times, if you are sure that you will never ever do it again then you can avoid a possible brake up, he maybe doesn't deserve it but all people make mistakes, if you don't feel comfortable hiding it then go tell him if you feel better doing it.

Sometimes, it's better unknown. It would hurt him horribly, and he shouldn't have to live with that because you made a dumb decision. I don't support cheating, and you shouldn't do it again, but please spare him from that hurt.

Of course.... Your boyfriend deserves honesty. He gave you his heart, but you were not satisfied. Don't you think he should have the right to know that he is not loved the way he should be? And... don't you think he has the right to know where he went wrong and why you cheated?

No. He will be hurt and will not understand my moment of weakness. I need to forgive myself and try to be faithful

This is quite literally the mots loaded question out there. It truly depends upon your intentions + what you want in the future. Rather than give you a direct answer, let me give you a few things to think about --- do you want to work through this? why did you cheat? how did you feel after you cheated? how do you currently feel about the person you cheated with? will telling him do anything beyond relieve you of the guilt? what do you want from this relationship with your boyfriend? The process of finding answers to those questions might shine a light on the answer to your initial question, as the answer is going to be very personal to you + your relationship.

No , just try not to do it again we are all human and make alot of mistakes just forgive yourself and let it go .

The way I see it is, in my personal experience I have been cheated on and they took a while to tell me, I would have liked to have known before even if it ruined the relationship but I am glad I know because it is better to know the truth than to not know it at all. Relationships are about loving one another and having the ability to trust the other person and look after them, so yes I think you should tell your boyfriend that you cheated.

I learned that my girlfriend of a year cheated on me several times during our relationship. The worst part about it was that I didn't find out from her. I found out from one of our mutual friends. That hurt me more than anything. She didn't have the guts to tell me and it broke my heart. I think you should tell him. He deserves to know. My motto is that if you've cheated on your partner, then the relationship was over the moment that choice was made. You can't have two people and by cheating, you've chosen the other person. I hate to be so blunt about it, but that's just how things work unfortunately.

Honest is the best policy. Yes, your actions may make him mad & may actually ruin your relationship but I promise that he will respect you more if you're upfront with him. Would you want him to be honest with you if he cheated? Put yourself in his shoes for a moment, I think it is a very good idea to tell him calm and collectively.

If you truly regret your cheating, and you have trust in yourself that you will now be always loyal to your partner, then you don't have to tell about what you did, but if you are constantly living with some guilt feeling or don't think completely that you did something which you should not,then your partner has every right to know the truth,