My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago who had a daughter I was attached to. We never got any closure, no good bye to the child. I was moving forward and holidays came and I feel I'm at day one?

That's really sad I am sorry to hear that you are going through this.That's really good that you feel ready to move on.Do you want to tell me anything about you and the daughter's relationship?

Sometimes you just have to realize that you did your best and if you still want closure, maybe you can talk to your ex to see if you can get that closure with his/her daughter. But if you know there is no room for that anymore. Better to just let it go and know that she understands and you did your best.

Hello, I understand that you are attached to the child and you would wish to speak with him at least to say goodbye. It sounds like you are worried and sad about what happened. I can image what you are feeling. Can you please tell me how old is the child? Do you think the child is old enough to understand what happens between you and your ex? What is the worst and the best-case scenario if you try to speak with him? Have you tried to speak about this with the ex? What does he think about this situation? I would like to know more about your case and to support you in any mean I can; If it is ok with you, please write me.