My friend’s brother died. How can I help her recover?
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Last Updated: 01/18/2021 at 12:27pm
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Anonymous
July 14th, 2020 5:51pm
Death is a very traumatizing experience, especially it being someone's brother. I believe the best thing you can do for your friend is be there for her. Check in on her and make sure she is doing okay. If she doesn't want to talk about it, just physically being there will offer her some comfort. Some people also prefer to be alone at times. Everyone is different. Just let her know that you're there for her and that whatever she needs, whether it be space or company, you'll be there. Just having a friend that will let her grieve will help.
Since I don't know the entire story and how he/she is dealing with the situation, I would suggest you think about how you would like people to behave with you in case you were in his/her situation. Try to empathize with your friends as much as possible without giving explicit advice which may not be what you're friend is looking for.
Advice may not be the best option since your friend, even if he/she doesn't tell you that, might think that you don't know how she/he is feeling because you haven't been in her/his situation, but, in case you had, share your story and how you dealt with it so that your friend can understand that she will get out of this moment.
Most of all, be sure to be close to and support your friend as much as you can.
Hope this helps!
Anonymous
January 18th, 2021 12:27pm
Death leads to loss and bereavement. These are emotions that you need to know that your friend has already. You must allow her to mourn and grief if she is still doing it. Be there for help the process by providing your shoulder. By listening you can know the stage where she is at. Is she still at denial.complaining,mourning before she reach a point of accepting the reality so that healing process can take place. You can know where she is by the words she uses to tell the incidence like if she says:even today iam still waiting to see my brother. You will definitely know she is still at denial.
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