Joy Kolker

Dr. Joy Kolker, a dedicated psychologist with a PhD, believes that every individual is born to love and be loved. However, life's complexities—such as work obligations, health issues, high sensitivity, introversion, tumultuous relationships, relocation, and unresolved childhood memories—can often lead to feelings of being unloved, manifesting as depression, anxiety, stress, grief, anger, loneliness, and low self-esteem. She offers a safe haven where clients can explore their innermost feelings, thoughts, and experiences. Dr. Kolker listens attentively, validating emotions while gently guiding her clients through the process of identifying self-defeating thought patterns and behaviors that contribute to suffering. Together, they work on developing practical strategies to alleviate anxiety, diminish depression, and foster self-confidence to enhance overall well-being. Her approach is practical and neutral, focusing on improving communication skills to navigate distress in relationships. With a warm and engaging demeanor, she provides tools to refine empathy, embrace self-compassion, and cultivate deeper connections and intimacy. Dr. Kolker integrates creative practices such as dreamwork, writing, sandplay, myths, art, and film into her tailored talk therapy sessions, ensuring a personalized therapeutic journey. Her cozy office is situated in a charming Queen Anne Victorian house in downtown Santa Rosa, offering clients a comforting environment as they embark on their path to healing.