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Marriage above 30

FindingAnswers August 4th, 2023

Dear women, I need advice because I am in an overthinking loop. I find arranged marriage apps to be very superficial. Most men just want to settle down early. I always thought I will have an organic way of marrying. There won't be this it's better if you say yes because clock is ticking kind of a deal. I am already 32. The person with whom I was emotionally attached is suffering from a chronic illness so it's difficult to have a future with him. I am trying to be realistic and kinda forcing to explore the arrange marriage scenario but I don't feel like putting effort.

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Mya000 August 5th, 2023

@FindingAnswers Hello, thank you for sharing. I think it's crucial to contemplate the reasons behind your desire to marry, the impact it holds in your life, the potential advantages it may offer, and why you believe there's an ideal age for it. Taking some time to ponder these questions could help you find the answers you need to make decisions and discover your true desires. Remember that life doesn't follow a one-size-fits-all path, and your well-being should always remain your priority. Take care 🫶

Emilyorchid August 8th, 2023

@FindingAnswers The concept of arranged marriages can indeed feel superficial, especially when you're longing for something deeper and more meaningful. It's okay to have reservations and to feel hesitant about putting effort into something that doesn't align with your inner hopes and dreams. Remember, the path you choose should ultimately resonate with your values and desires.