Through being really sad and getting over it
During the period of time when I got really,really depressed, I stumbled upon this website. I talked to one person, began to cry, and left. After going through the therapeutic system, I stumbled back on here, and decided I would be a listenerfor those who just want to break down and cry.
This is exactly what happened to me. I came on here to talk to someone and then realised how useful it was. I became a listener because I realised if I can help people through their situations, I can also work on my own through mine. And it really helps. You, too, have done a brilliant thing by becoming a listener. And I hope that it helps you as much as it has helped me. :)
I was actually looking for a suicide crisis chat website, but all of them were blocked up and busy or offline for the night. I was having a really difficult time, but google searches helped me find 7cups. I began to feel better not only by talking to someone helping me but also becoming a listener and helping other people :)