Saw it be mentioned on some PTSD support forums.

SaelbenNoa
March 13th, 2015
A person wrote about how it's exhausting to be a listener in their status.

Celaeno
August 11th, 2016
@CrazyIsLovely, glad you found us! Being a listener can be exhausting, but with a proper self-care can be minimized to only feelings of self-satisfaction ^^ Best wishes!