I needed help
I was going through a point in my life which didn't feel right, and somehow stumbled onto this website. I've wanted to help people ever since I got better!
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I'm a house wife and I have 2 kids , I spend most of my time with them I have no time for my self , sometimes I try to watch TV after they sleep in order not to feel bored , my husband doesn't care about anything g I say I told him several times I have to have time for myself without the kids (like him ) but he didn't care ,he spend most of him time at work and he spend few hours with us , he exploit any time to hang out with his friends ,today it's Friday I wake up and I didn't fi d him I called him he told me i'm hanging out with my friends , the most important thing that make me feel a great grief that I feel sad from his behavior , some times I say to myself (why r u caring that much ) he doesn't care ,for god sake do ur self a favor and ignore all of it , but I cannt , I just cannt , and every time he do that I feel sad , I donnt know what can I do , I went to the doctor because I had some symptoms and he told me that i'm fine but seems I 'm having a psychological problems , I need help plz
@Gulia
Hello dear, gosh I'm so sorry to hear you are having a terrible time right now, and that your husband is not being very supportive towards your emotional feelings, that must be very hard for you. It can be a very isolating feeling to feel so alone in a marriage and I would urge you to try and talk to your husband, find ways to make him understand that your feelings count, they matter and you deserve to be heard, understood and respected, it sounds like he is adding to your sadness, and this must be addressed in order for you to feel better and move forward.
Facing changes is hard, but if you don't face them, I'm concerned you are not going to feel better, and you deserve to be happy, loved and respected.
Do you think perhaps writing things down would help? Maybe you could explain things better in a letter? Just a though because I know this has helped others before.
Have you tried talking with one of our lovely listeners? Sometimes it really helps to off load your thoughts and feelings, it can help explore and identify solutions and outcomes.
I really hope things start to get better for you, and thank you for sharing today in the forum, it was very brave of you to trust us of your feelings!
Take care you beautiful person
@wisegirI12
I happy for you :)
