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Is it good to followup certain weird chats?

Enjoythelife91 February 14th, 2018

Had some chat with depression people, is it good to followup them?

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agreeablePal2260 February 14th, 2018

@Enjoythelife91 weird chats? Is that how us people with depression are viewed on here?

I'm kinda hurt by this as I thought it was a non judgemental site

Guess I was wrong

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Enjoythelife91 OP February 14th, 2018

@agreeablePal2260 i mean people who try to harrass us, whom i mentioned as weird. Those are the one worries me a lot though, they harass my identity

Booklover95 February 21st, 2018

@agreeablePal2260

Without sound rude his phrase/sentence could be interpretated in any way. We shouldn't jump to conclusions that fast... So ask first, not assume.

I got what he's saying. I wasn't harassed in chatrooms but indeed some weird and unconfortable stuff has happened. Like genuinly inappropriate behaviour that is excused simply because they're "venting". I'm talking VERY detailed stuff that shouldn't be talked about in a random chatroom because could send someone to a spiral of problems (is not light stuff, is heavy stuff). Is hard to judge though. To have a super good system that is that specific to judge what is rude behaviour and just talk/vent.

Also some people are VERY judgmental. Although 90% of people from 7cups are wonderful human beings, I've seen some really terrible people in chatrooms, that they think they're always right so you're basically "forced" to get out of the chats.

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Emily619 February 18th, 2018

I'm sorry you've had an uncomfotable experience! As self-care is #1, you can summarize the chat in five words or less in the Teen Listeners (or Listener Support Room if you're an adult) to see if another listener can take the chat. If no one can, you can refer them to Browse Listenerssmiley

Creepyandweird February 19th, 2018

@Enjoythelife91

Hi I'm darcy and I'm weird

Creepyandweird February 19th, 2018

@Enjoythelife91

Hi I'm darcy and I'm weird