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Pregnancy loss

User Profile: warmheartedSpring3954
warmheartedSpring3954 December 12th, 2021

Hello,

I was two nearly three months pregnant and I was doing everything right, I was getting my first apartment ready , I was eating well, taking vitamins and being extra careful at work.

Everything was going fine and i was excited even though it was unexpected because the pill failed…

my boyfriend wasn’t happy about it and told me to end it immediately , we got into a very bad argument and I had a miscarriage.


it’s been nearly a month and he expects me to be fine but he doesn’t understand that sometimes I can’t even look at him, I think I’m going crazy because I feel like she’s still here and I just talk and I’m not religious but… I just I don’t feel well and I’m having breakdowns all the time and I cannot help it.


his way of coping is anger… he takes his anger out on me and mine is just sadness and to cry and to feel guilty…


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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 December 13th, 2021

@warmheartedSpring3954

Hi, I hope this message finds you well. I am extremely sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I can imagine it's really difficult on you right now, but I know you will get through this. There's a great organization called Postpartum Support International and they have a call and textline that you can reach out to at any time for more help! You can call or text them at 1-800-944-4773. I have attached the link to their website below. I hope this helps! ❤️

https://www.postpartum.net/

User Profile: warmheartedSpring3954
warmheartedSpring3954 OP December 13th, 2021

@fruityPond7887

Hello,

thank you so much for your kind words and for the link and number , I will definitely contact them now that I know about the group .

thank you so much 🙏