Trauma about bullying ( Part II)
Hi! To those who don't know the context, please check my profile about how i struggled to contact ex-bully... Even though i know it is draining, scary and horrendous even when he is different now. Long story short, he used to apologized to me but because he bullied me for so long ( and many other reason too but i cant figure.. i still struggle to understand myself 7 years ago) Recently, he replied back to me that he is about to take AS-Level exams so he couldn't reply to me and he doesn't understand why i have to message stubbornly to him... As my previous post stated, i want him to help me to resolve this trauma once and for all but i don't know how to express that safely. Especially vulnerability isn't safe and uncomfortable at this time too, for many people who have depression and trauma, do you guy have any idea how should i reply? Many thanks!
@Eitas
*warm hugs * (if permission granted)
Things must be real tough rn, to think what you have been through. You are a hero.
If I were put in the same situation, I would choose not to reply. I don't wants to look back on the past and even though I hate to hurt anyone,I still have the right to protect myself and try to move on.
I wants you to know that, you are a free woman, you deserves healthy relationships with the ones you loved.
I hope what ever you do, life treats you gently with love and care.
@Apeatrice Thanks! Btw just to clarify You said "If i were put in that situation" you mean that if you were my ex-bully?
i really need help...