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I need a hug

User Profile: emotionalLime7158
emotionalLime7158 December 14th, 2021

I'm so drained. Burnt-out. I've only told one person since it happened a few months ago and I want to tell someone and get hugged and told it's not my fault. But there's no one around to hug me. Idk who to speak to so I tell everyone I'm good. After therapy told and everytime I'm super exhausted even though we haven't talked about SA yet. Spent the rest of the day in bed and got nothing done. N8

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User Profile: Linognathus
Linognathus December 14th, 2021

I feel bad for you for needing hugs but no one to hug you around 😢 sometimes I feel that too and it’s sad 😞

Maybe you can have that physical warmth from pets such as cats or dogs.. they are adorable and lovely :)

About your SA, it must feel terrible. I’m sorry you have to go through all that. I hope your therapist would be useful in making you feel better about it 😢


Sending love from here. It’s not your fault dear. Don’t blame yourself. Don’t let people tell you it’s your fault. You didn’t ask for it. You don’t want that to happen too. It’s not your fault. Stay strong xoxo

User Profile: Tintin17996
Tintin17996 December 14th, 2021

I could definitely give you some hugs 🤗 and hey! If you are feeling burn-out take some days off. Do what you love to do, watch your favorite show, listen to nice music, or perhaps looking at paintings, infrastructures or anything you like might energize you as this kinds of actions energize me. Take your time everybody deserves rest and a peaceful mind.

User Profile: kindcherry2
kindcherry2 December 14th, 2021

@emotionalLime7158

Hey Lime,

I understand being emotionally drained and burnt-out. I understand that you only told one person because you trusted them. I understand wanting to tell people about how you feel. ❤️*Virtual hugs*❤️ It's not your fault at all. It's completely the other person's fault. They were wrong and what they weren't supposed to do. The violated you. I understand not knowing who to speak to so you tell everyone you're fine even though you're not. I understand being exhausted from therapy. I understand that you haven't talked about your trauma yet and it makes sense. I completely understand staying in bed and not getting anything done. This must be so exhausting for you. Acting like you're fine even though you aren't. The fact that this just happened recently. I hope you feel better about yourself. I hope you know you're not alone. We are here for you. Please take care of yourself and your mental health. I know talking about this stuff isn't easy. I'm here if you want to talk. ❤️

- Kindcherry2