Hating the sexual aspect of me
Well folks, I guess one thing bothering me right now is the fact that I have sexual feelings and I normally equate that to "bad" when it involves me. Went through some crap when I was young which went on for a while but now I am incapable of feeling ok with the fact that I have sexual feelings, which are supposedly natural for a guy of my age.
Anyone else have this or were they able to get past feeling disgusting? I'd appreciate any feedback. It's been a rough day...
i dont feel comfortable with sex either, maybe u are asexual or demisexual or just dont want sex righg now. its okay, though, not everyone has the same feelings or experiences
HelloascendingHelix,
I wonder if the feelings that you are describing could be related to a strong guilty feeling that you got from what you went through when you were younger, what do you think? I mean, having sexual feelings would be for example linked withpunishment in some way, as in "if I have sexual feelings it means that I am bad so I deserve punishment" or so. And, as nobody in the world can avoid having sexual feelings, you would have really tough times. Does any of that make sense to you?
Please forgive me if I hurt you in any way, I amjust wonderingand trying to understand what you are feeling exactly.
I wish you the very best on your healing path,ascendingHelix, please take great care.
