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Betrayal Trauma - Partner of a Porn addict

User Profile: purpleYard1149
purpleYard1149 March 13th, 2021

Does anyone here have experiance with betrayal trauma? Just wanting to chat to people about it. My 2 previous marriages were with men who were addicted to porn. And my last partner was also a sex addict and mentally abusive.

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User Profile: hopebeyondpain
hopebeyondpain March 13th, 2021

@purpleYard1149

Hey there ❤️ Welcome to the community, we're glad you're here and you've reached out ❤️

I may not have experienced what you have, but I can see that your experiences have really affected you. It must have been so difficult to meet and put your trust in all of these people, and be hurt again and again. Your struggles are valid, and I'm sorry to hear about them.

When it comes to betrayal, I want you to know that you are the one in charge of your life. Your life and your happiness don't need to be held back by the people who have hurt you. It might feel unfair and hurtful to move on and heal after these people have hurt you and left you behind without making up for it. But you don't need them to be a part of the healing process. You don't need someone else to validate your feelings and experiences for them to matter. You are the one who knows and understands your situation best. You get to choose what you feel is the right next step. Other people can hurt us, but they can never take that away from us ❤️

I hope in this community you'll be able to find fellow users who have been through similar things and can walk this journey together with you. I hope you'll find solace in knowing that you're not alone and that this is a safe space for you to share your story and how it has shaped your life. I hope to see your responses at our check-ins and hear more from you, because you matter to me and to this community.

Thank you for sharing this with us, and I hope you'll have a good day ❤️

User Profile: AshleyDawn93
AshleyDawn93 January 16th

Going through this in my current relationship. Here if you'd like to talk. 💞

User Profile: SilverSkies24
SilverSkies24 January 18th

I went through it in 2 marriages where it escalated in to actual cheating. I’m here if you wanna talk

User Profile: Saphirefly
Saphirefly January 23rd

Dealing with this now in my current marriage. It does feel like betrayal and I don't know what to do. Would love to chat.