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People Hurting Others.

Canadian7 August 11th, 2018

Oftentimes, traumatic experiences involve people/persons causing hurt or harm to others, on an intentional level. They could do negative actions to hurt someone emotionally, mentally, and/or physically.

These harmful experiences are deserved by no-one, and are not of their own fault. Perpetrators may consciously know that what they are doing is wrong, but choose to engage in ill actions anyway. Victims are not to blame for a perpetrator's hurtful actions.

Does anyone have any insight or personal experiences to share on this topic?

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tallSugar4889 August 11th, 2018

Since the past year someone keeps on hurting me for No apparent reason they look for an argument for any little thing be vindictive lying to me ignoring me and generally being nasty last year I was concerned for this heartless person they got to a phone yelled at me so badly i lost my confidence and now I think everyone will yell at me so shameless then screamed on the phone what do I want from them someone heard this person yelling and told this person off they told them they got the wrong message and day then as well this idiot for got the wrong end of the stick and did not apologise everything to this person is about people wanting something not knowing i was concerned 2 years ago said you have found a friend for life now making out I'm such an inconvenience said 2 years ago if you talking to me helps then I will come and listen to your problems i would rather have you tell me then make yourself ill again i was worried for you now even in emails this horrible person keeps yelling at me I'm so scared to even mention things as this person acts like a thug then keeps picking on me this person tries to belittle me on every occasion now im a nervous wreck where has this person been since my problems have escalated no where in one email my brother read it and said look how this person is treating you but I keep going back for more this person keeps using my mental health to their advantage making out I'm having a relapse when I am secretly so depressed and anxious I can't even Tell no one this person can't accept i had a breakdown and keeps telling me to be the person I was 10 years ago but I can't makes me cry and be depressed when this person yells at me I told this person not to bring banana nose back into my life each time he causes me a nervous breakdown this person thinks because they helped me in the past they own me i have To do what they say if I refuse they twist things around then in the end I end up grovelling and apologising even if I'm not in the wrong they think I'm not allowed to have opinion of my own makes me cry every time and treats Me like a naughty child in one email this person even wrote like a teacher would to a naughty kid that I am difficult and to be really vindictive this person phones me at night when they know my father will answer the landline instead of my mobile just to stir trouble sometimes I really hate poo pants then I think this person was the only one there for me since the past 9 years I don't know if this persons behaviour is motivated by someone else or they listening vindictive Also insinuated it was my fault someone transferred themselves to another town. Evening Christmas time got the wrong end of the stick and ruined it when they know this is the only time of year I like. If someone else comes in my life to help gets over obsessive insist they will help and gets rid of them especially if it's a man I'm so depressed at the situation at times this person has even said it's me who scares people off from my life on purpose this person can say everyone else's name but in the past 9 years says my name differently or forgets it hurts really badly when you idolize this person yet this person idolize someone else doesn't even have five minutes to look at my face makes out i am needy and crazy and at time makes me question my own sanity talk about two faced

tallSugar4889 August 11th, 2018

I have been a victim of hate crimes and anti social behaviour intentionally being targeted by the community i live in i have had so many breakdowns and depression due to this it effects both me and my family mental games are the biggest game played by the perpetrators then they tell people me and my family are not all up there after playing these games the perpetrators make out they are the victims no support for me and my family also perpetrators cause the trouble then when people gather around they shut their mouths hid their fists making out they have not done nothing or said nothing people only see and hear what they want then make our we are like this including the families we helped @fairmindedCity7391

Canadian7 OP August 11th, 2018

I have actually had many negative things happen to me, since I moved to a new city in 2015. Something happened to me in 2015 (I won't go into details here), and then I moved. After I moved to the new city, people started doing all of these negative incidents to me (complete strangers who do not even know me, and have never even met me in real life before). They started doing things like invading upon my privacy, they logged into one of my personal Internet accounts (two fradulent logins occurred last month; they used a type of computer which I do not even own or use, and one of the fradulent logins occurred while I was out of town at the time), and they did other negative things, like harassing me in public. This was traumatic for me to experience, and I do not understand their ill type of behaviour. I have been reporting things via various methods, and trying to cope with these strangers continually bothering me from one year to the next. They have engaged in negative incidents towards me in 2015, 2016, 2017, and 2018. I really wish they would stop. These people don't even know me.