Is this abuse or am I overreacting...?

So, my parents can be kinda aggressive sometimes... they never hit me or anything, but they claim that the computer is ruining my emotional state and then proceed to not listen to what I have to say. Dad's given me a panic attack on purpose and has broken my laptop before, and mom insists that I could've had it so much worse and often uses dad's anger as a threat to get me to do stuff. I can't tell if I'm crazy or if it's actually abuse... is it??