What I know now

I was groomed by my childs father starting at 14 and he was 19, i ran away from home, from my family to be with him. He gave me drugs and alcohol. he ruined my life I feel like and im 35 just now realizing what he did. he also dated another underage girl after me and i just have a lot of anger towards him now. our daughter is 14 now, the same age i was when he asked me to he his girlfriend. it makes me so sick.

I sent him this message bc he in prison for theft right now ...

Ever since our last conversation I cannot quit thinking about what you said. How you said Toby is not a chomo or ***. As you stated his situation was like ours.. in my eyes an adult male preyed on an underage girl. That's what happened. He groomed her, made her believe she would be better off with him than with her own family. Fed her drugs and alcohol, committed statutory rape.

In Illinois, statutory rape is defined as any sexual activity with a minor under the age of 17, regardless of the age of the accused. This is because Illinois law states that anyone under 17 is legally incapable of consenting to sexual activity.

You were 19 almost 20, I was 14!!! 14!! I was a child. Do you realize our daughter is 14??? Do you realize you did it all again with jewliana!?? It makes me sick and I think you should get help for it while you are in there. Before you get out and ruin another little girl's life. That's all I have to say.