What is the fun in fourth of July

Why do I feel like it's not okay to force you to watch your other siblings and cousins be able to play games in front of you and win stuff and shove it in your face but yell at you when you ask to play a game is that like neglect or emotional abuse or something because that isn't normal. We wanted a stitch hat.. Yea it's on Amazon but it's ten times funner to win the dang hat! We have two little crying over this one has a few tears do to him being older but we have a five year old sobbing her eyes out because she loves stitch... But it seems okay because what else did she give not just that! Our stepmom didn't bring sunscreen so our dang sunburn started to blister and skin started pealing! We are in pain and she doesn't care what do I do