Moving Forward
How do I even move on? I was in an incredibly unhealthy relationship for 7 years and it is all I know. I started a new relationship a few weeks ago and I don't know how to handle situations. I know it should not embarrass me, but I sometimes find myself cowering when I have no need to. I'm worried. I'm worried for so many reasons. What if he doesn't accept me? What if I can't handle a more healthy style of conflict resolution and the problem was somehow me? And the list goes on.
@amicableNorth4690
I feel for you. I've been in an emotionally abusive relationship for 6.5 years now. I haven't left. I can only imagine the time it will take for you to trust someone again. I read a quote recently, "Time doesn't heal all wounds, it's what you do with the time that heals the wounds." I think coming on 7 cups is a good start. Keep working on a little bit each day. When you can. Take every moment, new situation, frustration one at a time and think about how you respond. I hope the new relationship works out for you, if it's what's best for you.
You have done really well to reach out.
I am sorry that you are going through this.
I hope that things get better.
