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Insight on a decision

Peabody October 22nd, 2021

So long story short I recently got away from an abusive situation I had been in for 11 years. Healing has been rough but someone was nice enough to let me and my kids stay with them in exchange for help at their home except it's only temporary. It's coming time to see where I need to go next and I have to different options one is a live in nanny position to help a busy father with his 3 month old baby while he works in exchange for free living. That's all he wants. The other is another father and his 15 year old daughter. He is very financially stable and his location is my home town which I have been wanting to get back to for the past year. Only thing is after talking more he told me he would like companionship 😬 with me. He is also much older then me and he wants nothing else from me. I just don't know which move to make. I tried to see what would benefit me more but I wanted outside insight. Ask more questions if needed.

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Peabody OP October 23rd, 2021

Update I made a decision 😃

soulsings October 23rd, 2021

@Peabody I am sorry on a weekend there are not as many replies.

I just want to caution you that when some people in my life said they want companionship, they had in mind intimacy. Living in the same house it was more difficult to put up barriers.

Hope things work out best for you.