When there is deep grief, there is great love.
It's not just other people we need to forgive. We also need to forgive ourselves. For all the things we didn't do, for all the things we should have done.
@Naevis
Exactly!
Very well said!
Self-forgiveness is very important!
Thanks for the reminderšāØ
How does one forgive themselves if they never knew
Jello
@Naevisšā¤ļøš
@Naevis yes I agree forgiving ourselves or at least accepting we made a mistake and not ruminating trying to make a different outcome. I cannot change the past.
That's why I don't have great love in my life
@Idontcare67 I hear you. I have tried to not love and to love and both have been problematic for me.
There is a way I am trying to love by not clinging to the idea that someone else can make me happy. I can drop my expectations and assumptions about the other person and just be with them in the present moment. It is not easy for me because I have accumulated lots of expectations and assumptions but it is possible.
You did Not need to care
Beautiful!!